Get ready for disappointment because that’s likely where you will end up. There is a reason that bisexual women willing to join a pre-established couple for no strings attached sex are often referred to as unicorns. They are super rare, often thought of as mystical, and regularly sought after. Because of that, they are often in a position where they can in fact pick and choose who they do and don’t join. So finding one willing to join you and your girlfriend, out of all the other couples looking for the same thing is even less likely to happen.
That having been said here are a few things that can help. Let your girlfriend do the talking, not necessarily all of it. But enough that your potential unicorn knows that this isn’t just a one sided request. She will also come across as playful and kinky, where as you are more likely to come off as perverted. Put yourselves out there. Your friends (and hers) are going to be your best chance. But you two would have to talk about who in your friend groups might say yes before you even bother asking. The next step is dating apps. If you aren’t familiar with it try 3nder, its exactly what it sounds like. But if you don’t have luck there try the others. And be upfront about what you are looking for. Tell people right away what you are looking for, and be respectful when they aren’t interested.
Hope that helps.
Thanks so much!
ask her to get one of her gfs she will know what to do and if she doesn't do it, it means she reallly doesn't want it even if she says she does
So…first tip- make sure the both of u really want to do this, otherwise it won't be fun. Second tip- find someone you can have fun with , its way better when the 3 of you have good chemistry. Is there a friend youd be interested in? A friend of mine asked my girlfriend and i and it was a blast for example. If not there are bars and hookup sites that are known for finding a “third”. Lastly, set up some rules , be as free or cautious as you want and you'll have a great time! We were asked and not sure how far we wanted to take things.
Your guy’s sex life must suck if you guys think about adding someone else. Why don’t you try loving your girlfriend instead?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Ima be the party pooper here, it's just my job unfortunately but if you wanna keep your relationship healthy, don't fall into lustful temptations, it will only lead to downfall in the longrun.
I would think you look online for someone that wants to be a third
I know how.
Yeah?
It only works for us because all three of us are extremely close.
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