Do you mind that he watches pornography?
Are you're issues with it that you are concerned he will try to cheat on you with an older woman.
Do you think you would be willing to indulge his fetish with some kind of role play games where you dress more mature and give a bit of a porn style milf treatment to him?
So that's what started all of this... How much porn he watched, and then when he watched it... That was the hardest... And now it's what he was watching... I have a fetish that's the complete opposite... I don't know how to role play being older when all I want to do is be little...
But won't do any work into my fetish...
Could you not trade kinks? One day you could be hot, conservative but slutty milf and then the next day you could be his little girl. Maybe each of you write out a sexual fantasy scenario and could consider acting them out. I realise if you want to be a little girl, what he wants is the opposite and maybe completely unappealing to you, but it could be a real opportunity for you both. It's hard sometimes for us to find people who will indulge our strange sexual kinks. You and he already have each other and could both end up giving each other what you want.
Thats why roleplay is a beautiful thing. Just embrace it like he embraced yours. Find ways to fulfill his fetish so he doesn't feel liie he has to seek it
My fetish is a little... Ddlg... Please no shaming... So it's completely opposite... How do I act older? When I don't know how to?
Hey, there’s no shame in being open with your partner about your fetishes or turn-ons.. It can complicate or ruin things though. My ex found out about some things that happened in my past and instead of understanding why I shared it with her, she thought I was telling her that it was my fetish and then right before I climaxed she started role playing it.. it messed things up on so many levels for us.. there were other complications but let’s just say that this was my takeaway: is your relationship based on these sexual desires, or is it stronger? Find out before you push either of each other any further.
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I mean.. whats the problem? He has a fetish.. okey then.. are you trying to satisfy his fetish or are you trying to come to terms with it? If its just trying to come to terms with it I fail to see why it should matter.
Because I can never be that? That is what I am trying to deal with. If I could try will, but it's freaking me out right now.
You dont have to be that. He obviously chose you so I fail to see the problem.
Do u get a sense ever that u compare whose fetish is easier.
Not really, he's known about mine since we got together and did no research into mine... And I've just found out out his..
Have u guys practiced ur fetish? And now he's shutting away?
He's never tried, and now all of a sudden wants to go full on. I can't do that... I know I'm not what he wants... Well that's how it feels
Yeah it doesn't sound like you two are compatible.
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