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How to handle my fiancé’s sister asking me to put her on birth control?

My fiancé’s sister who’s 15 I took her on a spa day to spend some time with her and also ask if she’d like to be a part of our wedding ceremony. Somehow we got on the topic of guys and she was drilling me with hypothetical questions finally she mentioned that she wanted to lose her virginity to this guy. I was honest with her in telling her why she should wait But if she chooses not to then what to do which is birth control, condoms, etc. this led into her asking me if I could take her to get birth control and I mentioned that she should talk to her mom which she said no. I ended up explaining to my boyfriend and he’s not happy I told him it’s not fair to go back and talk to her about what we discussed unless he is going to be nice that matters at 15 with self esteem not to judge her... she texted me about the birth control thing again
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Most Helpful Girl

  • You have no obligation to help her if you are uncomfortable, but if she really wants to have sex she is going to do it anyway. That's how people are. Maybe your fiance can help instead since she is their sister. I'm guessing her mom doesn't approve of her having sex yet which is why she won't go to her. In the end, it's the sisters body and choice to have sex, but it's your choice to help her or not. Just know by saying no I am sure she will be very upset and unhappy, but it's the facts of life she will have to get over one day.

Most Helpful Guys

  • you're not her legal guardian so you're not responsible for her. from what you say it seemd she's losing her V no matter what so id chat to her mum, if she's approachable, and discuss it with her. If not maybe talk to your own doctor etc. but if she was my daughter id have her on birth control cos no matter how "in control" teenagers are about their feelings on sex, all it takes is once.

  • You can't get birth control without a prescription. Depending on the privacy and consent laws in your state, she may be able to get it on her own. Any other request from you guys is bullshit. It she's dead set on doing it, give her some condoms.

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  • Omg use some punctuation PLEASE. The last sentence is like five miles long.

    • I’m sorry!!!

    • Can you clean it up so I can help?

  • sounds like she is going to loose her virginity to this guy no matter what you say or do. mite as well help her get birth control to try making it safer.

  • I don't believe in birth control.

  • Yeah she needs to talk to her parents. Her getting on birth control is smart or else she will end up getting pregnant.

  • She can go get condoms at 15.

  • If you know that she will be responsible and careful, the alternative is a baby.

  • She is too young to loose the verginity but if she insists then you must help her and guide her properly

    • I agree but she’s also a teen and knowing from when I was a teen we end up doing stupid things better to be safe I guess. I just didn’t want to step into parent mode

    • Yeah but you know a lot of teen girls get pregnant every year hence they know about birth control stuff and condoms but still like a huge number of girls are single parent before they turn 16... So do guide her before it's too late

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