How to handle this relationship?

Question

I am a 40+ woman and the man I am dating for the past 1 year is in his late 20's. We met in a gym , fell in love and started having sex.

I have never been married. This guy is like a crazy bull. He never listens to me and does whatever he wants. Now he wants to have a baby with me. he has stopped using a condom and always cums inside me. whenever he is in the mood he would just pull my pants down and start the action.

when i tried speaking to him he says - i love u baby and i love to bang u hard.

Hannahm67 · Accepted Answer

Being much younger he is probably still thinking with his dick more than his head. So I doubt that he is likely to settle down and help you raise the kid. You are also getting old so there are probally not many years left that you can have a kid so if you want to have one I guess keep at it.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

You are lucky that he serious about you, plus you don't have much time left to have a baby.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

It doesn't excuse him but looking at your pic, I can see his point. You should talk to him. Do you enjoy his just take it style sometimes?

RemoErdosain · Answer

You posted a lot more information than what's necessary. Just think that your dumb decisions will impact someone else's life a lot more than your little brain allows you to think. Having sex is great, but you have to at least be responsible enough not to bring a child to have a miserable existence. If you're selfish, I can tell you your own life will be shit too when you have the baby of someone who won't help you raise the kid, so might want to think about that too

guitarguy1995 · Answer

This is dumb. You aren't in a relationship. You get fucked when he wants and thats that.  You never set boundaries so even if you did now he wouldn't respect them. And why would he?

20yearsolder · Answer

In most countries that would be considered rape. I don't understand why you stay with a guy that does that to you. I'm not sure you're aware but it's the year 2020 and you have the right to voice your opinion. If he doesn't want to listen to your opinion then it's time to end this relationship and find someone that actually respects you

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Not exactly seeing what the problem is?

LiamSawyer · Answer

You're beautiful and so much younger looking then 41 you look more like 31.

chriscdi · Answer

sounds like this "relationship" is running on lust, he doesn't love you, sounds like he loves your pussy, or your body

Reivel · Answer

Maybe you need to meet some older men

SCDivinitySoul · Answer

Does he love you tho or loves your body because he thinks it's all easy access?

414guy · Answer

That is the most bizarre thing I have heard here. I would think that the woman would not like such demeaning behavior. To bring a child into your bizarre situation isn't a very good idea. What a controlling dude too...