How to help a friend who is depressed and insecure about the size of their penis?

I asked someone I know why they don’t have a girlfriend and they broke down and admitted that they’re small down there and the girl he was with made fun of him and how he’s depressed and stuff. Now I feel bad and don’t know how to talk to him about to make him not feel this way
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  • You may want to tell him the majority of guys do not have dicks like male porn stars the same way real women don't look like female porn stars. The girl that made fun of him probably hasn't seen many real dicks to know the size of an average guy and has no credibility. He shouldn't place any weight on her opinion or care what a small minded person like her thinks. There are survey results online about average penis sizes worldwide he could check to confirm he's in the normal range. Even if he's small, a women that is really into him won't care. What's most important is how he uses it and his personality. From a girl's point of view, a smaller penis may be more comfortable to deal with during vaginal sex and fellatio.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Be genuine. Describe what you enjoy about a penis. What is the stuff he can do with a penis for a pleasurable session for a girl. So that he gets to be confident that he can still give a lot of pleasure to a girl with his small tools

    • I don’t want to describe sexual stuff to him lol

    • You don't have to get sexual, you know that right. Just teach him how to perform in bed and convince him that's what matters

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe he wants u to assure him he's fine. You know what i mean... anyways not having a girlfriend is not much of a big deal its not he's missing his limb or something. He will get a girlfriend someday

    • No that’s not it lol we’re related technically and it was a genuine emotional reaction on his part

    • I understand being insecure but i think he needs courage

    • The kid who gives in to bullying always suffers

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not much you can do at all

    • Howww I wanna explain how it doesn’t matter becus there still young but I don't know how to say it without making it sound strange

  • Uuuh... My condolences?

  • Lmfaooooo this sounds like the plot for a porn

    • Maybe your type of porn but not mine

    • I just seen this type of plot in a porn. The girl asks the guy why he’s single, and he says “My dick is too small” Then she tells him to prove it, and next thing you know she starts sucking and fucking him lol

    • O never mind then that won’t be happening LoL

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  • You could have sex with him.

  • Does size matter to you? if so, there is nothing you will be able to say to him. If not then talk to him about it and explain your perspective on it.

  • Unless you want to sleep with him you just leave that topic alone. At best he will remain the same at worst he will resent you for not sleeping with him. Let him figure it out. How small did he say it was?

  • Tell him : it is not the size of the tool that matters but rather how you use it.

  • Guy why you posting anon on a pink account. It’s ok women don’t care about your small Willy

  • Just make sure that he won't think that you are interested in him if you don't want anything with him.

  • Explain him why size doesn't matter to you. That might cool him down

  • Penis size matters, if it's small he's cursed.

  • İs your boyfriend uncircumcised or circumcised

  • Ask him to show you then assure him that he is fine and it's not that small

  • Really. Maybe he needs to start wearing panties, and be a submissive sissy if he it that fragile