Have you actually told him how that's your favorite?
I'd he worried? Would he like you to have a 'yellow light' 'red light' safe word, so he knows you're okay because you're not using them?
If you've done that and it seems like he just needs to get fired up, wear the sluttiest thing you have, or nothing, straddle him, grind on him then walk away and if he complains he wants more, tell him if he wants it he has to take it.
or slap him during foreplay and ask if he's gonna fuck you like a lesbian or a real man like when he's been drinking.
tell him exactly what u just posted in a firm voice
or just tease him a lot and find his trigger to make him rage hard and he should be as rough as u can handle
How do I find his trigger?
He seems a shy guy if he does it when he is drunk. I am sure he is into too. But he needs some relaxing talks. Have you tried seeing a sex therapist?
we don't really have money for a sex therapist... what kind of relaxing talk?
Ok. That is all right. As i understood he is into rough sex, when he drinks. So he needs being relaxed. You know they can not do it when you force it. He has to feel it. Give him a massage, touch him gently. Eat together sth, even drink sth light. Then Talk to him how you love him, how you like whatever he does to you. Put some music to put him into mood. Undress yourself , etc. He just needs some confidence. Give him that. You are his wife. You know how to provoke him already.
Just talk to him about it. Tell him its a huge turn on for you. I'm surprised you didn't tell him before marriage
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if he doesn't like then talk think and find other soln
tease him but not like annoying way
like loving way
At last u should do after u both drunk
U can deal like
one time u will the way u like
one time the way he like
u women are realky interesting
U r of savege type in bad
like a female tiger ;)
try this
I would try to break him into it slowly, don't expect him to be great at all things instantly. Try introducing something new one at a time. Let him know you enjoy it and want to explore more. Not to be too crude but start small by asking him to go harder and deeper. Somehow let him know your enjoying what he is doing, scream moan or just tell him "yes that's what I want". If he knows you enjoy it he will do it again, we all like to please our partners. Personally I love it when my partner tells me what she wants, don't expect him to read your mind. My wife really loves to watch me masturbate and cum on her but it took me a long time to get comfortable doing this. Now it's just common place. All I can say is I wish I had his problem!
Just tell him. I don't know how your husband is but in my opinion if im fucking and someone comes out and says fuck me hard pull my hair. I'm first going to be as turned on as physically possible and then im going to do what she wants twice as hard. It's sexy when a woman tells you what she wants. Especially when she tells me she wants it rough
That isn't something you just do unless you are into it. You have warmed him up with the texts, and that's good. He will do it, proven that with booze. He just needs to learn its OK other times to. Trust me, we men are easily influenced when we are aroused. Get him going then start telling him to do the things you want. Start off slow and easy. Have him do you doggy style and excitedly tell him to spank you. Let him know you love it! When he is getting close, take him out tell him you want him to cum on your face and position yourself for it and give him a wicked grin and lots of dirty talk encouragement until he cums and let him know as he is how much you live it. Work up to the hard core. Let him learn it and adjust to doing it and know you are liking it. He may not be all you want, so work with him and teach him. Just make sure he is OK with it all too. Face to face, honest open conversation about it... sober!
When he did it (after the drink) how much did you tell him "Finally, YES, that's the level I was looking for" ?
If you don't single out what you want, how is he supposed to know?
He actually asked me how much I like it so I told him a lot
But "a lot" is non specific. That's the point.
So in detail tell him... k... why are guys not good at taking hints?
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