How to keep your confidence?

When your boyfriend or husband stares at girls on social media and in person how do u keep your confidence if the girls are all the same looking bodies and your body looks 10 times different?

Especially when the guys sex drive for you went down and doesn’t really look at you anymore?
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Superb Opinion

  • here is a bit of s perspective that may help any gender with that.

    keep in mind that the majority of people are not good at being original in visual ways. most people also find things in groupings such as neat rows of an item, a uniform height/size, same bodystyle, hairstyles, skin tones, etc satisfying to look at so a type of appealing. all on a more subconcious level. yet most also preffer a partner that stands out from those uniform visuals too. so while a SO may look at a lot of something such a rough "type" of person (especially online) does not mean that same SO would even entertain leaving you for one of these (often) strangers (again often) that they would not even have access to outside of what us seen online.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Guys in your age group should have non stop boners. You're not w the right guy. Maybe you need to work on yourself as well, but either way this dude is not right for you. It's wrong to treat a girl like that.

    • I’ve worked on myself but recently gotten more insecure with being 8 months pregnant and maybe having sex once a week when I could have it 10 times a day. I’m normally ain’t the kind of girl that gets insecure over my man looking at girls. Until now.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't even have male friends who do that. That is a red flag in every situation and I want nothing to do with such people.

  • Tell him you find them very sexy and would love to have one of them as your girlfriend…..

    • How does this help me though?

    • Then when in bed you start talking about her being there with the 2 of you. Imagining you kissing her and exploring her as her he watches and then he will be so aroused he us going to be all over you as you ask him to satisfy you as you are satisfying her. Almost all guys get extremely turned on by our girl/girl fantasy talk …..

    • He can’t even watch a movie with girls kissing it grosses him out.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Ask yourself. Why are you still with them? What is making you stay?

    • Bc he still makes sure I’m okay. And I can’t do the sleepless nights alone again with the newborn baby

  • Break his face