How to know a guy enjoyed a BJ?

So I gave a guy a BJ (my first time ever) a bit ago so I’m not really experienced in that department. It was a drunken spontaneous night out. But bc I was such high nerves and my first time being intimate with anyone ever, I don’t know what cues indicate I did well.


He did moan “fuck” a few times and also grabbed my head while thrusting sometimes too. But I’m worried did that mean I was going too slow or? When it ended and we cuddled he said “that was good” but I don't know if that’s just what guys say just to say it.

I don't know I may be overthinking but help a clueless gal out.

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  • When you were cuddling, if he was holding you, he enjoyed it, and saying it was good on top of holding you is also a good sign. If he were lying, he would probably be more distant.

    Grabbing your head just meant he was adding to the excitement. Some guys will grab a girls head to have something else to touch on her body, like a boob. It adds to the pleasure. It usually has nothing to do with your speed, unless he was trying to get you to go at a steady speed. When guys get closer to cumming, if the girl doesn't keep going, the orgasm won't come, so he may have just been trying to get there, which is no bog deal.

    But if he was holding you during you cuddling session and said it was good, trust me! He enjoyed it!

    • Yeah he was was holding onto me too. We just did some “pillow talk” as some would say then went to sleep a bit after. I was honestly just worried he may have been trying to fill silence or something like that but thank you.

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  • So long as you didn’t use your teeth and you swallowed chances are it was good. You’ll get better w experience. Some tips though. Make sure you pay attention to his balls as well, lick it up from the shaft to the tip then just swallow it while when you get to the tip. Maybe use a few ice slivers in your mouth while doing it. I always find it hot when a girl is sucking me off then I grab her by her head and start kissing her heavily. Or when she’s riding me then gets off and starts giving me a blowjob after it’s been in her pussy.

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  • If your mouth was full of hot liquid when it was done, he enjoyed it.

    • Exactly. It's REALLY not difficult to figure out. LOL.

    • @MrOracle
      How to know a guy enjoyed a BJ?

    • Love it!

  • I know Hubby enjoyed the bj because he told me.

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  • If he came, it was good.

  • If he had an orgasm it was fine. Hopefully he returned the favor... you deserve some good orgasms also!

  • It is true men are generally slow to express any criticism for a blow job. If he was thrusting there is a chance you weren't going as hard as he would have liked in the moment, but in general you can suck a dick as gently as you like as long you don't stop.

  • he said it was good, seems like all the hints are there so i think you are overthinking.

  • If he ejaculated from the BJ, he enjoyed it.

    Note: I guy moaning "fuck" is positive... whatever you're doing, he wants yo to keep doing it.

    • Even if he doesn't (and I never have in that fashion for the record) it is a great way to warm up the man-cannon.

  • You're totally overthinking. The guy enjoyed. Holding your head and thrusting into your mouth means that your mouth felt good and he wanted stronger stimulation.

  • When a guy says fuck you know it's good for him.

  • Dunno, I've never had a good one. Hell, the last person to give me one, used her teeth for some reason leaving me bleeding.

    • Ouch! Yeah I made sure to keep my teeth as out of the way as possible as I heard some stories like that before and didn’t want to be one of them lol. I mean I definitely tried my best so I hope he didn’t get any teeth action lol.

  • Like his hard he comes? If he really explodes then he really liked it.

  • Well as long he cum he did good. You can also tell if her was looking up and s down at you, maybe his legs where shaking. Also he was just grabbing you head and thrusting seeing if you like it. Also guys don’t really say it it was good if it was bad he might say something. Also you will get better at it everything get better with practice.

  • Moaning is a sure sign, and when he cums.

    • And so is thrusting and grabbing your head. Don't worry, you did just fine,

  • Hey, you're blowing him, I think he liked it. It's better than not being blown, right?

  • If he comes back for more then you know.

  • ig u did it well...
    he will be tired after he came uf he really had a good orgasm..

  • Asking him is only option, some signs may tell it but it can be fake too.

  • If he came, it was good.

  • Did he cum? Did you make him bleed? If the answers are "yes" and "no," then it was good.

  • Sounds like he was really enjoying it. And he finished. Nothing to complain about. You did perfect.

  • I’m sure it was good, guys don’t lie about that, if he cums it’s good

  • It is good