How to know if boyfriend is addicted to porn?

[Anonymous]

Literally the question what are the signs i really need to know if i should stick in the relationship tbh...

[Guy13]

TEST HIM:
Draw ✍️ a Picture, tablet or paper, of you and him kissing with Arrow. On same tablet or paper ✍️ Pic in your Fav. Position.

If, he scratches his head in dumbfounded amazement.-You know like A-Z, too quickly.
Oh Babe, got to go to bathroom. K, honey-WAIT, the only thing on that side of house is Office and bdrm🤔.

if he comes back with smile 😃 then he figured out what was supposed to happen in between those 2 Pics you drew. DIAGNOSIS: Porn Attention Deficit Disorder compounded by Irreversibly Stupid 🙃

Free of Charge💰

[ChrisMaster69]

He wears a tool belt, offers to fix your washing machine and has a Swedish accent.

along these lines.

“hello prettyttyen ladydyen, i havenn comenn to fixxen yourren vashingngen machinenn. i havenn a toollen beltlten and der biggen toollen forren biggen jobsbsen.

if prettyttyen ladydyen vantnten to havenn herren pooppiessen pettennd i havenn speciallen creammen forren pooppiessen”

[Ninania]

Sounds more like a german accent 😂

[IsoUser]

Lmao, that was awesome

[tata1993]

What made you look for signs though? Don’t look for signs if u didn’t see something that indicates that he is actually “addicted” to porn , or else you’ll ruin the relationship yourself with all the doubt..
Also trust me, most guys watch porn and it isn’t that bad if he’s not putting it over the actual sex with you. I suggest you give him space and not make him feel that you doubt him. Just let him be

[IsoUser]

As a guy any guy who says he doesn't watch porn is lying even girls watch porn

[KrisPW]

If he is turning to porn before turning to you. If he is running late for things because he was looking at porn. If he stays up too late at night watching it and is dragging all day because of it.

[laurieluvsit]

If he would rather watch porn that have sex with you then he is addicted to Porn.

If not, than nothing to worry about.

[Screenwriter]

If porn interferes with your relationship, as if Porn, capital P, is another person: You can't go out because X is too involved in his daily Porn fix. X forgets to perform daily tasks because of Porn. X is late for work because he's watching porn. X doesn't come to bed because of porn. X doesn't have sex with you because of porn. X wants to perform porn sex with you.

I don't know how many of those have to exist for there to be a problem. I'd say one or two. Porn is the other person in your relationship.

I don't know why this happens. I suppose porn is stimulating to certain folk. Breaking away from it, might be like giving up cigarettes. It's a bad habit. Hard to do.

[nitsuj86]

If he is still sleeping with you, why does it matter?

[DaveJord]

Anything that gives you doubts or creates anxiety for you in a relationship is probably a sign that you should end it.

But most guy watch porn theses days, but once he starts declining sex for porn... its a red flag.

[IamAdonis]

I disagree with your first paragraph

[Daniela1982]

If he is more interested in jerking off to porn instead of having real sex with you.

[purplepoppy]

A sticky keyboard

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If he wears glasses like this.

[DonkeyDan]

It takes higher priority over other things including sex. Hides the fact that he watches it a lot. Gets irritable or irate if you try to discuss it with him. Potentially has performance issues as and when you do have sex. Seems uninterested in sex, and so many more things.

To be honest, unless he is willing to admit to there being a problem and agreeing and committing to getting help nothing will change.

Is it worth sticking around? No probably not, especially if it is making you feel bad about yourself and putting a strain on your relationship.

[VanillaSalt]

By talking to him about it instead of us wth is wrong with you?

[Gidge]

Maybe nothing.

[VanillaSalt]

@gidge I doubt that all of us have something wrong lol.

[slatyb]

No one is addicted to porn. Some people spend a lot of time looking at porn. Some people spend a lot of time playing video games or watching sports on TV or surfing the web. If he has no time for you, then the problem is not that he's watching porn, it's that you are neglected. Are you?

[Fiend88]

Id get rid of him. In my opinion it's a form of cheating. He should only have eyes for you

[GMANN56]

Maybe he has a high sex drive and she thinks once a week should be enough because that's all she needs.

[Gidge]

@GMANN56 It sounds more like he's not putting out.

[GMANN56]

@Gidge If he would rather jerk off than have sex with her then yeah, time to dump him.

[Fiend88]

Isn't that the message he's giving her by watching the porn? That's how I'd take it. @GMANN56

[GMANN56]

Except she doesn't give us enough info and we don't have his side. In my case I want sex everyday. Period. So if my girl is not up to it, I'll jerk off. It's not that I don't want her, I don't want some sort of out of obligation sex. Now they obviously have work to do on their relationship. Or they look for their soulmates somewhere else.

[Fiend88]

@GMANN you're right about that. I agree with you there. In my experience the cons of porn are these: 1. It makes me feel ugly and undesirable, like I'm not who they want to be with. 2. If my man is looking at ANY other pussy but mine I feel like it's cheating. Maybe not in the physical sense but in his head and heart he is in his lust and desire for another woman. 3. Men who watch a lot of porn make love differently than men who don't. They are more rough, cold and mechanical. 4. Men who watch seem to be more likely to be cheaters in flesh also, and they don't look at women with respect but more as an object which makes it harder for them to commit to someone. They want a relationship of lust not love. When I'm in a relationship, I don't want any of those things with my mate. I know this may sound unrealistic but I'm looking for that special love that we all dream about. I want to be the only woman he loves to look at, to touch. I want to be the center of him and he for me. When I love someone, all other men don't exist for me anymore. Maybe that's silly but that's what I want. Romeo and Juliette and Bonnie and Clyde. Its been impossible to find that kind of man which is why I'm single. I've settled in the past and it's never worked out. I've been the one left with the broken heart.

[GMANN56]

I think of as say with a Victoria's Secret catalog. I don't want those women, I want to see MY woman wearing that lingerie. With porn I don't fantasize about THAT woman, I fantasize about how great it would be to do what they are doing with MY woman.

[Fiend88]

I understand what you're saying. Then why not be doing it with your woman instead of watching someone else? On the flip side of my feelings if my man needs porn I'm definitely down to make our own. Im open, willing to do most everything. I wouldn't mind at all making any kind he wanted and having him spend his time watching us. To me that's a fair compromise?

[GMANN56]

I have a feeling your man doesn't need to masturbate.

[Fiend88]

@GMANN LOL. I do my best to make sure he never has to. So you think that's enough for a man? Or do you think they still need some strange for excitement?

[GMANN56]

I would never think that my opinion speaks for all men. I've known guys with wonderful girlfriends who acted like it was their duty to fuck anything that winked at them. And I've know guys who were loyal as hell to girlfriends who fucked around. I've only had one girlfriend that could match my drive. All the others... didn't last. But I was always a one at a time guy and I think most guys are.

[Fiend88]

Thank you GMann

[GenaBaby1995]

Porn creep when they can't get hard for you or it's hard to get him excited.

I can do sexy, it just turns on inside just like that. When I was doing cam 📷 shows these poor guys would stay on online all day long. All of the addicted ones couldn't get it hard anymore, unless I did something extreme, smh.

Oh, I just looked at ur age. Dump him you can get almost any guy, just remember you get to pick or even be in charge if that what you like!

[Citizenkirk]

If you ask him for sex and he says "after this porn flick" than you know he is addicted to pornography.

[AvaOneLasTime]

You are so fast to give up.
His problem might not even be severe!
He just has to turn his attention towards you.

[AviatorTom]

When he's watching porn, go up to him and tell him you want him... NOW. If he's addicted to porn, he'll ignore you.

[IamAdonis]

YES!!!

[EnglishAntagonist]

Why does it matter? Porn is awesome. If you’re the type of person that has an issue with porn then yeah do him a favour and find somebody that will keep it secret from you instead. Everyone watches porn, everyone. I watch it every day, multiple times usually, I watch porn when getting head :) that’s my favourite

[IamAdonis]

Agreed, sex while porn is on is much more intense!!

[Aelleden]

Addicted means he can't live without it, means that when he stops he feels bad and meaningless, means that he would dodge work to watch porn and consume more and more until he doesn't even enjoy it anymore. Addiction is a serious condition, if you believe he's addicted, you should not leave him but rather try to help him or direct him towards professional to seek for help.

[Darine123]

At least he doesn’t cheat on you by go f w another girls

[Chattyguy44]

You could be sneaky and install a keylogger on his computer if you knew how and anytime he logs on you could track him on his own and see his search history

[Gidge]

A ton of nude pictures saved on his phone and an obsession with bizarre sex.