How to lose my virginity?

im 20 and still a virgin, im embarrased, insecure and dont feel good about myself like im missing something out.. i've never had a real boyfriend either so im starting to lose hope to the "wait for the one that you'll love" bc i dont think i'll ever be the relationship type. plus i get horny a lot lately so what are my options? i was thinking about dating app but how do i tell that im unexperienced? im sure no man wants to teach a girl how to fuck
meet a random guy online
Vote A
buy sex toys
Vote B
look for a "sexual relationship" with someone i know
Vote C
wait and be patient
Vote D
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  • Maybe the best thing would be not to advertise that you haven't had sex yet. Try some dating apps, or go out with friends to a club. When you're with a guy you feel safe with you can let him know during foreplay that you're inexperienced. You'll probably be anxious so have some lube in your purse and ask the guy to go slow when he first enters you.

    • thank you for MH Guy opinion!

  • Step 1: go on Tinder

    Step 2: get laid with a ridiculously hot guy

    You're a girl: if you want casual sex it's really not that difficult to get (assuming you don't weigh 300 pounds, and even then there are some guys who are thirsty enough).

Most Helpful Girls

  • upload.wikimedia.org/.../...px-Logo-Tinder.svg.png

    I was the exact same way. I was always sad and depressed. My friends convinced me to try Tinder. I've never been happier.

    • And that app will make u more lonelier Cause in there, u maybe fucking a lot of hot guys But never known to love that person in you U will just be that sex object to their eyes But never will be loved

    • @MikkiM A lot of guys from there want me to be their girlfriend, but I'm having too much fun fucking. The guys are just sex objects in my eyes.

    • you sound fun

  • From what I know a lot of guys dont care if you are experienced and sometimes prefer it

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  • Why are you even embarrassed of being a virgin? Why rush for casual sex just in order to rip the hymen? Who said it's wrong to be a virgin in the first place?

  • Why wouldn't a guy want to teach a girl how to fuck?

    No diseases, no bad habits, what's not to like about that?

  • If you want to lose it, it's not all that tough. Just go find a willing dick.

  • I'd say try sex toys. nowadays u can find people online fairly easily so try that as well. if u know some guys u like or even just wanna hook up with go for that too

  • , oh sweet girl a lots of men that want you but don't offer to that easy to him let him work for it let him know that he deserves what he gets don't just give it to him damn damn damn sweet girl

  • I mean, if you're cute, we might be able to come to an arrangement.

  • No it's not embarrassing

  • meet a random guy online

  • first understand that virginity is simply the absence of an experience. an experience that has yet to be had can not be lost. you don't lose anything when you do it, you gain a new experience. you can have sex what ever way you want.

    • some people feel like with a friend or stranger is better because more often that not you won't end up with whoever you do it with the first time. others want the flighty Disney romance stuff. just know that it isn't a huge deal

  • you'd be surprised how many guys out there would jump at the chance to teach you to fuck

  • Option C I have voted...

  • you'd be surprised!

  • wait till marriage

  • Don't rush it, hunny. It's not that great.

  • Go on Tinder. You can get fucked everyday. It's really easy.

  • Hit me up my dear. I will put an end to your problems before you know it.