How to make a girl orgasm?

Question

I've been dating this girl and she's really good at what she's doing and in afraid I don't give back the effort she have given me

Jns0324 · Accepted Answer

Ok so me personally, I like the clit to be sucked on. Not like hickie hard sucking. But like a gentle amount of pressure. Alternate that and licking from bottom to top and do it again.
I would start with two fingers in the vagina. Come out and rub in a circular motion around the clit. Do this a couple times. Then go down and bite her thigh (easily). Lick her vagina from bottom to top... so basically start off gentle and gradually get a little rougher. Sometimes you have to because it is sensitive to the sensation at first. Once you are beginning to suck in the clit for a bit, insert the two fingers again. Find some articles in stimulating the g-spot. This is where you need to be with the fingers.
If you see her rocking with you or shaking at all... she's into it. Don't ask a girl what she likes, take the time out to explore a find it out for yourself. Watch her body language. If she is just laying there lifeless after 10 mins... you ain't doing it right. Hope this helps.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Focus on the clit, bearing in mind that a lot of it is internal but you can kind of feel the shaft through her skin. And be a lot gentler than I think a lot of guys tend to assume; clits are much more sensitive than penises. Beyond that, ask her what feels good. Maybe try mutual masturbation so you can see how she pleasures herself

Via_8662 · Accepted Answer

Just ask her. Every girl is slightly different and feels sensations differently so you can't go by what other people answer on here. If you don't want to ask her then just experiment a little and see what seems to give her the most pleasure.

Tuomaaash · Accepted Answer

Relax, give it time and enjoy the ride. Most of the time it´s about mentally being able to enjoy your partner and trust him/her enough to let go. She´ll let you know when the time is right for her to do just that. Meanwhile just go down on her and do lots of foreplay. If she doesn´t want you to stay down there until she gets an orgasm, it mean´s she´s not comfortable enough at that point :)

Fuselesss · Accepted Answer

lick or caress her vagina then slowly move to her clit. this is usually q sensitive area so dont expose the clit and stimulate directly. go smootly and do it on the skin that is covering the clit. dont go too fast, its not usually about speed. go in a circular twist, left right, up down, explore what she likes and ull get her there in minutes

SneezinWithBlessin · Answer

Tease her. She will get super horny and that's your chance to *do your thing*

klyuh · Answer

Ask her what she does when she masturbates, that will give a lot on insight to what she likes.

HGG3805 · Answer

Ask her what she likes and what she wants to try. Giving her oral with her showing you what she likes. Focus on her pleasure and put yours aside. Women can come from sucking on their tits. Most guys don't do that enough.

Steelbonds · Answer

What effort you reffer to and specify how you do it currently (the return back ). So i can even attempt to help.

itsallover · Answer

Ask her what's she likes. Communicate.

TheCunningLinguist · Answer

A combination of both oral and manual stimulation. Read up On her internal pressure points With regards to orgasm. Do not Get your oral education from porn. Even lesbian porn, they suck at it. And even those who are good are just so.

QueenofCups · Answer

I agree with @RayaJ. Her advice is really the best solution.

WalterRadio · Answer

Each woman responds differently, but if you want to be sure of it, get her a vibrator.

RoxyGlitter · Answer

Tons of cunnilingus, and learning about her hot spots below the waist. Sometimes some nipple and butt play can get a woman off. My wife can orgasm from proper nipple play.

GingerGuy · Answer

Communication! Ask her if she likes what you're doing and/or if she'd like anything else or different. And don't be upset if she says yes or take it personally. It's all about getting to know their likes/dislikes and everyone is different.

RayaJ · Answer

Are you good at oral? If not get good at it... Just saying :-)

Browneye57 · Answer

Have her show you what she likes.  Pretty much at some point ya gotta pay attention to that clit, in some way or another. :)

Artemisia8 · Answer

Tell her mathematic joke.

XXVikingxX · Answer

Drift bro! There's nothing that can get girl as wet as drifting... and if you let her in the car while drifting she'll orgasm.

mithram · Answer

i only can have orgasms when I'm in love,,,,, it's so weird

TonyRyanAgain · Answer

It's easy and she'll like you a whole lot more when you pull it off, lol.

LittleChicken · Answer

I personally like when my boyfriend plays with my arse. Grabbing and squeezing at first building up and maybe a little finger there too... I have a very small beginners butt plug the size of a finger, teasing with it gets me going. It gets me so hot I'll be begging for him to be inside me. Then rough riding and soon enough I'm coming really hard. But that's just me 😉