How to make a guy have desires with you again?

or wanting to have sex with you again? I mean I dont want to behave slutty either to get his attention but you do want your message across that "lets repeat" what we had 1 month ago in his place. The thing is that if I dotn want to be slutty or tell him slutty things or act slutty to seduce him by text is because the guy is behaving odd recently and he is becoming distant to me like what he did with me was ok back then but not anymore.

He has not told me directly or hinted me he did not want to get laid again, simply something is going on with the guy now maybe personal or maybe not that is fading and he has not explain why. But this behavior just recently change, in a matter of like 2 weeks, he was not like that before those 2 weeks, he was fine with me I dont know if hte guy is going through some personal stuff in his life that is distant and not communicating at all with me but he has not said a beep about what is going on, so the lady only assumes different theories of that strange behavior.

Unless he got bored to have sex with the lady but how can the lady know if he had not been vocal to tell her that, or tell her something.

I had an issue with him when they have sex before but I dont think that was an issue for him not to want to have it again, I had my period when we had sex the last time we had, but I was not expecting my period to arrive the day we had sex but it seems the guy did not enjoy much having period sex, so the sex did not last long , he could not even lick me unlike the first time he did and I liked it, and also the guy asked me to masterbate , so I masterbate with my period, so he can jerk and cum, outside as it seems he did not enjoy me having my period but also I got a bit tense on my inner thighs when he penetrated me back then, and he noticed.
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i know not many guys like to have period sex but that is different in each man. Idoubt he lost interest in me for that, as weeks later he kind of hint me if we see eahc other eventually some day he will have good sex with me. So I do not know why I believe he lost interest as he has not been vocal with me recently or have communication with me in like several weeks now. Has he found a new lady in so short time? Just wonder.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • This is a bit of an awkward situation and this guy seems to be rather insecure and to make weak excuses for not wanting to have further contact.

    The best thing of course is to ask him directly what his reasons for acting like a child and to shut you out of his life with no valid apparent reason.

    If he does behave like that with you, there is a chance that he will act the same way with other people and in other situations in life.

    There is nothing like a good, down to earth conversation between 2 people to try to set things right.

    If you think you did something wrong, then it is up to you to ask him what it was and if he cannot give you a reasonable reply, then my belief is that this person has some issues that need fixing.

    Before any other attempts to get together physically, it is important to clear things on a verbal way and see how things can be fixed or what can be changed on both sides to try to get this flame going again.

    Good luck!

Most Helpful Guys

  • It looks like an combination of multiple things, the extremely poor sex that you had last time, and the fact that you not being intimate with him often enough might made him lose interest in you, he was not waited so long to get an shitty sex, it's really upsetting, and even if he found a new lady, it's the chicken or the egg dilemma at that point, also you don't want to behave slutty even though it might be the only why that you could save your relationship with him? you expect him to make a move even though he is clearly losing interest at this point? also you having sex with a guy who is not in a serious relationship with you, so what the point in trying to act prudish about it?

    • why you said extremely por sex? Was it my fault my period arrive ahead of time? Was it my fault that he did not like period sex and I did not know that? Periods is something a woman can't control so IT WAS NOT MY FAULT MY PERIOD CAME when I was not expecting it to arrive precisely the day I had a date with the guy. So ostop blaming the woman for all of that. You always seem to balem the woman here the woman there and you always believe men is not at fault., WHAT A SELFISH THING TO THINK.

    • As I said it's a combination of multiple things, you was not meeting with the guy often enough and then when you meet with him you was on your period, and you didn't tell him about it until the last moment, also you don't want to act slutty and try to seduce him, even though it might be the only way to fix your problems with the guy and make him interested in you again instead of him going for a new lady.

    • I doubt try to seduce him again will really work this time. I believe the guy problema now it is something about himself as a person, not as a guy interest in sex for the momento. But I beleive it has to do with somethin gin him as a person, not sex related at all

  • Im fine with period sex. Its no biggie to him probably.

    With that said you need to have sex. Just because you like sex and enjoy it doesn't make you slutty. It makes you a grown adult woman. I think there is too much labeling of women and slut shaming.

    Just go on dates. Be sweet and funny and kind. Be yourself. then at the end of the date have sex. Then repeat. Its really simple to make a guy fall in love.

    What you dont want is to just have sex without the date. It doesn't build connection.

    • Anyways, with all of that said... reading what you wrote... you sound like a beautiful, honest, incredibly sex woman trying to please him. he's an idiot if he doesn't want to be with you. I sure would date a girl who is caring and sexy as you are. Period sex doesn't bother me. The girl is just more horny.

    • I dotn even go on dates because no guys ask me out anyway or find me interesting to go out on a date even if it is with no intimacy they dont ask me out and also I won't have sex just with any date out there

    • I hear ya... but you know... you could ask guys out on a date too. Its the 21st century. if a guy is cute why not ask him out!

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  • I did period sex with my ex whenever she complained it was heavy or painful.

    TBH I hated blood. But doing it bare helped relieved her a lot.

    Hence we would fuck in the toilet so that it was less messy.👌👍😆

    And due to space constrain and she knowing I did it to help her with her period, she would reward me with my favourite position doggy style. 😁😁😁😁

    • not all guys like period sex

    • TBH, I fear blood. And period sex is not something I like. But I did it because it gave her relief. And that i think is good enough.

  • Can you get together with him in person to talk about this?

    • No i can't for the moment

    • Then I'd suggest you write him a handwritten note apologizing and tell him you want to see him again to talk about it. Handwritten notes are extremely intimate.

    • Why I need to apologize to him? He is the one who needs to apologize to me for being silent and blocked me out of the blue with no explanation

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  • He Lost Interest and Will Also With HER. xx

    • why he would had lost interest with no fuking reason whatsoever

    • Not meeting with him for months and then having a poor sex with him is no reason?

  • Revenge body always does the trick. 👍

    • revenge body? what is that

    • Google it.

  • When you dazzle a person with nothing but your naked personality bear being able to always have experience that's affected them deeply that your shine with what attracted them the time you first met not all men ever take they're feelings back impressive mark you left that correct putting on your charms will always keeping them coming back here's a plaster patch him up & your good to go

    How to make a guy have desires with you again?
  • How to get a man's attention:
    1) Bring whatever he likes to drink (Beer, booze, wine)
    2) Show up naked
    That about covers it.

    • I dont think that always work believe me

    • It works with most men... as long as you don't look terrible naked !

    • in my case it idd not work so any other ideas?

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  • jyst work on what deep down you both can't talk about

    • how?

  • The period sex could have been a major turn off for him. Some guys love it, others hate it. There's really no middle ground on the issue.

  • what the fuck are you asking?

    simple this question down, so i dont have to fucking read

    • I thought it a fascinating story. A poignant tale of innocence lost. 4/5 stars.