How to make him more dominant?

I need to be dominated. But my boyfriend just isn't good at it. He want actually hold me down or just be in control. How do I help me feel more masculine/dominant?
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  • A lot of guys will be scared of this now. A couple of girls couched me on this.

    The first girlfriend would be having vanilla sex with me and then just start in sotto voice saying "Rape, Rape, Help! Rape". The she would just twist me out. She lay still till I reinserted and established a rhythm and then repeat. There would be a few cycles of this. It was exciting and got me wanting to ejaculate. So I would naturally stretch her arms above her head and put my legs over her legs so she was completely pinned down. At which point i just went for it.

    I think this would be a good way to go about it. It needs to be organic. A lot will tell you to talk about it and to have a safe word. WTF? Nooo is completely different to NO and STOP. And the permission from doing was different to what verbal permission would be. It was more of a full licence. If she did something femme that made me hard, I would just up and use my erection immediately because I had a licence to.

    I think that is what you want.

    Another woman seduced me with a rape game. I was very naive at the time just past post virginity. She complained she hadn't had sex for a long time. I demurred as i had a girlfriend. She asked to me to simply lie on her so she could feel the weight of a man on her. That seemed a suitable compromise to my naive self. Then she asked me to kiss her. Then she told me to take the kiss while she swizzled her head and tried to avoid my lips. well I ended up forcing her as she wanted.

    The magic ingredient is being consensual and resisting. The girlfriend above enabled my inner beast with her routine.

    I'd find her jumping into jeans and would just drag her down to the carpet. Or I'd feel a semi forming and call her to me and flop it out to show her. As in porn scripts 'sex ensued'. Then we found out she liked waking to an orgasm so it got sexosomnic as well.

    A following girlfriend started declining, so I countered by insisting she say No to me many times. I lied initially saying No turned me on. But relatively quickly NO did start turning me on. It turned her on as well and she boasted about it to her girlfriend's.

    This is the way to turn your boy into the beast you need.

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  • LMAO…. If you’re not happy with him. Stop trying to change him and break up. If you mean just sex…. Maybe you’re the problem

  • Maybe he's afraid that he will hurt you? Have you tried telling him explicitly what you would like?

  • Well, I am sort of sure that he can't read your mind, so try speaking slowly and be specific about what you want. If that does not work, drop me a message.

  • You can’t. You’re not sexually compatible

  • Ask him to thrust harder and deeper and faster. Also ask him to not ask you what you like when you're having sex and to move you physically with his hands into different positions without saying anything. Had a partner who needed to be dominated and that worked for her.

  • talk with him, express your need. teach him tricks.