How to make sex not hurt?

[Anonymous]

I'm losing my virginity tomorrow, any tips to make it not hurt/ hurt less?

[PrudentGuy]

From you reply to buying lubricated condoms and very wet, I think you already know the basics like foreplay and positions and such. Hence I'll not add to those basics.

Perhaps I shall write what you may not expect.

1) the worst-case pain could be "like a razor cut". Not that it will happen to you. But please be prepared. That may help you ensure your first time is done and your hymen broken completely.

2) also, when it's over, you may have the "is that all to sex?" kind of feeling. If it does feel that way, don't give up. Nothing should stop you to have 2nd, 3rd even 7th time tomorrow.

3) he may leave you after that. Sorry to be so straightforward. But its very real that guys leave after taking the girls virginity. Many girls lamented here. Hence be prepared if it should happen. If you're not his first, then likely you will not be his last.

To conclude, you know the basics. So just follow his lead. But be prepared mentally if things go bad. It's not the end of the world. Hope these opinions help you get ready. And by the way, congratulations! You'll be a woman tomorrow! 😄😄😄

[Asker]

thanks for this, i'll be sure to mentally prepare :)

[PrudentGuy]

Today, do some yoga stretching, meditation, learn to breathe deeply and relax yourself. Have a wonderful day ahead!

[PrudentGuy]

Update: Congratulations! And don't stop at First 😁😁😁

[Asker]

hahah thanks :) and wym at first?

[PrudentGuy]

Oh... not "at first", rather "don't stop at only your First Time". Make plan to have your 2nd time sooner. The more you have sex, the more you will enjoy it. Experience counts.

[Asker]

ohh haha okay I will try

[Curmudgeon]

If you are not "Wet" enough down there, KY jelly, and other such products in that section of the drugstore, are perfectly acceptable, as are lubricated condoms. In fact, at your age I would make condoms mandatory.

[Asker]

i got extra lubricated condoms at the drug store, and i will probably be pretty wet

[Ciarle]

Make sure you do heaps of foreplay before. It didn't really hurt for me the first time <3

[Danbar95]

Just go slow and let him know that, guide the session. If you want it more, let it be known, if you want to slow down some, let him know.

[chriscdi]

go slow is all i can say

[lawhawk84]

Relax, breathe, and have plenty of warm up before penetration. If you are able to, have some lube handy in case you need it. The less friction, the less pain/discomfort

[Silvius]

Insert slowly

[Silvius]

Do it live online

[Asker]

im good

[Silvius]

How it was?

[Asker]

it was good!

[Silvius]

Now you know, do it daily

[Asker]

i wish lol

[Silvius]

For your health, wait at least 36 hours between each sexual activity.

[Asker]

what is that for?

[Silvius]

To keep your body healthy

[Asker]

how is it a health risk?

[Silvius]

To become addicted, to ruin your life, to distroy your vagina

[bradbradley]

congrats

[Asker]

thanks!

[bradbradley]

no problem hope it was what you thought it would be

[Asker]

better, it didn't hurt like i thought it would and it felt good

[bradbradley]

i remember my first time damn it was amazing didn't last long lol but it was great

[Asker]

yeah haha it was short but it felt good and now its all i want

[bradbradley]

i was the same way i may have lasted 5 mins lol

[Asker]

ahaha well it wasn't his first time

[bradbradley]

oh well guess you got it good then lol

[Asker]

why? experience?