How to meet men who are into BDSM and kinky creative sex?

[Wanderingheartbeat]

I don't want a one night stand or a hook-up. I actually want to meet a guy who I can be in a relationship with that enjoys sex as much as I do as well as being freaky with it. Let's say I talk to guy A. And we have a sort of connection. How long until I know he's into bdsm or other stuff? The last thing I need is a vanilla guy. :S

[Anonymous]

Try some BDSM sites.

[Anonymous]

lick their balls

[Anonymous]

Well my ex bit me while we were kissing. That was enough of a sign for me and things just escalated from there. Also maybe try going to a leather club.

[Anonymous]

Look online for BDSM meetups and clubs near you, and try fetlife. com to find like-minded people.