How to persuade my boyfriend to do doggy style?

It's a fantasy of mine to be roughly fucked in the ass doggy style but he doesn't want to even hear about it, let alone try. He says it's something he'd do to a slut not his girlfriend and it's frustrating me to the point where I masturbate to the thought of other guys I know doing that to me. How can I talk him into doing that?
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  • I think I know what's going on. He's really worried that he's going to hurt you. Or that it's gay. Or that you will think his penis will be dirty after and you will not want to suck him.

    I would suggest asking him to putt a finger in your butt when he's really aroused have him finger you and tell him how good it feels. Moan loudly and tell him how strong your orgasim was. You could even suck his fingers after. That would prove to him you don't think it's dirty.

  • By explaining that his real life and his sex life are separate and independent things. You understand he respects and adores you but that shouldn't prevent him for seeing you as a woman who desperately needs to submit to him sexually and one way to do that is to take it rough, hard, and deep up the ass. That you NEED it and that it's his job as your lover to give it to you.

    Do things like being spanked turn you on?

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'd be really pissed if my boyfriend wanted to do such stuff with other girls and not with me. You should feel free to tell him that just because you're his girlfriend, it doesn't mean things have to be vanilla all the time.

  • Look at the end of the day if your in a relationship then you should be his queen in public and his slut in the bedroom... Why is it that he feels the opposite way?

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  • So it's not just doggy style, it's anal doggy style? Is he not into anal? Have you done anal previously with other partners?

  • Because it's a sign that he's more powerful than you and that makes you how slave. He doesn't like that he wants to treat you as an equal.

  • Have a conversation with you that one night a week, you want to just be his little slut. No holds barred, your safe word can be Shark Tank. If he isn't interested in that, find you a guy that will. or get used to boring missionary sex.

  • Tell him that even nice girls have wild sexual fantasies and that you want him to be the one to make your dream come true. Does he have a problem with telling you what he needs from you sexually?

  • There should be no persuasion needed. a mini skirt with no panties would do the trick;-*

  • force him at gunpoint. you'll only have to do it once until he finds out how much he likes it.

  • That's so weird why can he try to satisfy all your sexual needs, talk to him because things like this cause cheating

    • Thanks for the MHO did you finally got what you wanted?

  • tell him if he doesn't you're going to let a random 37 year old guy from GaG do it to you :-D

    but seriously, some guys aren't into anal. I don't know why. I guess it's the poop thing? Perhaps work him up to it by asking if you can use anal sex toys while he fucks you. If he can get comfortable with that, then it's possible he'll become less queasy about anal things, more generally.

    • 37 year old guy willing to fuck someone's else's gf's ass. I am wet. haha

    • @pakgoyan lol. yeah. instant panty dropper..

    • @pakgoyan 51 yo guy would love that!!!

  • He's a Trog and a hypocrite. Gets no respect here.

  • How about, do doggy and by mistake, his penis enters your annus? I mean you could try this too

  • i dont think you can you will just have to emphasise that its your fetish

  • You can't.

  • I used to be like that... then I dated more girls and found out they aren't perfect little angels. Is this guy young/inexperienced/religious?

  • go ass up, face down on him xD i bet he´ll just hop on :P he should learn that it´s totally ok to be a slut with your partner... but more like exclusive slut.

  • Call him gay, i bet he will give you a lesson xD

  • dump him lol I don't know one guy that doesn't love doggy something is wrong with him

  • what a wimp.

  • I don't understand how he'd be ok with doing that to a "slut", but not you.

    • will you not be okay to do it with a slut?

    • personally, if she wants to do that, I'm down for it. Just don't call me daddy ;j

    • haha. I won't :P

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  • that s the most funny thing i have seen since i was born

  • give him a blow job. then lube him up and put it in yourself

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