How to propose a friends with benefits relationship?

How does one go about getting into a friends with benefits relationship? I'd like to have a few but don't know where to start. Can it only be done with ex's or something?
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All of the below is good advice, but I was looking more for how to have the conversation.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Whenever a guy and I would determine to be friends with benefits he:

    1) Tells me straight up, "I'm looking for something relaxed, not really a relationship, but something where we can just have fun"

    2) He leads to sexual conversations, sends a sexy pic, or asks to "come over" and things go from there

    3) Ex's can be used to, but not for long cause usually ex's like to move on.

    4) Call a girl over and tell her you want to make out?

    Something along those lines..

  • How funny, I am wondering the same thing...got a hot guy that I crave, don't want his love, I already got his friendship, don't need his wallet, I got my own money, don't want him for myself, I already have someone, just want to taste the candy and wrap it back up for later, when I want some more.

    =)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well it's with a any friend, but when you become friends with benefits with them the friendship kind of dies... Don't think it won't. The friendship will lose its value... but if you don't care about the friendship then by all means do it. Ask them up front if you want to, but if they say not it could be awkward for a while.

  • You don't have a few friends with benefits, having one or two is all you should even try to get, anymore and drama will rape you in the ass when it arrives, also it means putting your friendship on the line, so BE CAREFUL, I've lost some good friends thinking with my penis ;_;

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  • It can be with any friend and it's something you just gotta be blunt about .