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How to push her over the edge and make her cum?

I was fucking my girl the other day and she was a virgin before me so no one as made her cum from sex. I was getting frustrated for a few weeks trying to get her to cum. I tried everything from fingering, eating her out, rubbing her clit all that. Then the other day something new happened. I was fucking her and her body went stiff, and she was screaming but then her voice cut like she wanted to scream but nothing would come out. She started grabbing the sheets and then she collapsed and told me to stop. So I did. She said it was amazing and she feels like she just came but she didn't. She says she doesn't know how to release. So what do you make of this and what should i do to push her over the edge so she releases?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Have her show you how she masturbates and then try it together, when she is real close to an orgasm then slowly enter her and take her to the next level. Ask her for feedback when you are doing oral on her. tell her to let you know what feels good and what does not. Talk to each other about want feels good and what can be even better like" a little gentler or a little faster etc. How often are you two having sex?

  • She is not letting go.
    Let her finger herself while you have sex to help her come.
    It will loosen her up.

    Don't push her to come. Sex is pleasure and not a task.

    • I wansnt even trying to make her cum. We just tried a different position and thats how she reacted.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't even know I have this same problem... I just know from penetration I can't climax like that but I can def climax from oral you just have to be down there long enough until she climax.. and also not to show signs of frustration when your downthere because that will turn her off. Make it like you love doing it... and she will come around

    • She did the same thing when I went down on her but she feels like her body tightens but she can't bring herself to orgasm

    • Because she's not into it she's holding back.. how long have you guys been together?

    • I think she's into it. She just says she doesn't know how to release with penetration

  • Uhhh, that seems like an orgasm to me. What is this release that y'all are looking for?

    • I wouldn't know since I'm not a woman lol Just telling you what she told me

    • Well from reading what you wrote, it seems like she IS orgasming. I'm almost sure that that's what she's doing. I think that she thinks that because nothing is coming out that she's not orgasming.

  • I'm assuming she can cum from masturabating so she actaully knows the difference?

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  • With your penis

    • Thanks youngin'

  • Maybe try some roleplay, spice it up a bit, get a little creative, surprise her

  • really extreme dirty talking, oral and fingers, then the d.

  • Err, fuck her longer, harder and deeper?

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