How to quit squirting?

Is there a way to stop squirting? We do not do oral sex or fingering on me so there is no conern there, but when we have vaginal sex if I orgasm I squirt, which is something I didn't know I could do because he is my first and I only ever masturbated with a vibrator on my clit and nothing ever happened. Point is, I rarely orgasm to avoid squirting, so he pulls away before I orgasm or we just have sex so he can orgasm which is fine, but I would love to have an orgasm regularly during sex however that will not happen unless I can stop squirting. I have tried peeing before sex and making sure I am completely empty but that has not helped. Any help or advice?
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  • All previous posters have been entirely immature about the thing. "Well I would like it so that guy needs to get the f*** over it!" It has to do with her not liking it and being embarrassed about it, and it's none of your business the reason she wants to quit. Imagine you defecated every time you came with a girl, and the only answer you could get back from girls was "What, she should like it! Do what YOU want, stop trying to please her!" BTW, I doubt any of these guys have ever been with a squirter, and just assume that it would be a blast (no pun intended) to end up soaked after every time they had sex.

    That said, on a quick google search, it looks like there's no particular way to stop it. I've heard that it can be learned, so maybe stopping can be similarly learned. Apparently you can have surgery to reduce the size of certain glands that are causing this, but that sounds like a costly and over-the-top method to quit. I would see about practicing not-squirting by penetrating yourself when you masturbate. As for sex in the meantime, maybe you should try for him to finish you off orally when you get close enough.

    You're actually fortunate among women. Some 60% will never have this problem simply because they can't climax during vaginal intercourse. You've just got an uncomfortable alternative ;)

    • He doesn't like fingering or oral sex so that's out of the question lol as I said up above. What's the surgery called?

    • Comparing a normal part of orgasm to many girls (squirting) to defecating makes absolutely no sense! And I would say that that comment was "entirely immature".

    • I don't know what the surgery would be called. I saw it mentioned on a site, it may only be speculative, but talk to a doctor if you're really serious about it. @Red Arrow the comparison wasn't saying that they were similar acts, it's pointing out that it has nothing to do with how YOU feel about it. Your opinion about squirting and if it's a turn-on or not doesn't matter here. She doesn't like it, and that's all that matters. It's obvious that squirting would make many women uncomfortable.

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  • @Update - This is just a free piece of advice, but it's usually a bad thing for a young woman to get in the habit of trying to change herself for the preferences of boyfriends, especially for physical stuff. It sets a dangerous precedent. You don't have to like what I'm saying, but you should consider it.

    • Whatever

    • So considerate of you to give that free piece of advice. Here's a piece of advice: Quit giving out advice. I can see you get a "moral high" off giving people things "for their own good", but you perceive everything so poorly. You're using "don't change for other people" as a blanket statement for not pleasing a partner, and it's two entirely different things. Maybe it sets a bad precedent for you to wear deodorant just to get laid. You got to be yourself man!

    • Jumping from personal hygiene to trying to alter your biological workings is a pretty simplistic leap, even for a 21 year old. But then again, you're from Texas so I suppose deodorant has somewhat of a mystical quality to it. Maybe I get a "moral high" off of sharing my experiences to help people, but then again I don't describe myself as a "glory hound". Also, I receive messages from people on a weekly basis thanking me for advice I gave them. I suppose they think I should keep giving advice.

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  • I think maybe not relax as much. I squirt only when I relax a lot, so if you are more tense that might work?

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  • Wow. Tell your guy to grow a pair. I would love it if my partner squirted while we were having sex. Most other guys would too. That is hot.

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  • You can't stop it any more than you can stop yourself from sneezing.

    He really shouldn't be afraid of a little discharge.

    • He's not afraid he just doesn't like it

    • If he simply "doesnt like it" then if I were him, I'd have no problem putting my complains aside and please my girl.

    • This doesn't help me.

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  • Just put a towel down and enjoy it. Squirting is totally hot, I bet your guy loves it that you squirt. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

    • Seriously?

    • Yeah. I don't understand how a guy could NOT like it. It's so hot.

    • No,seriously as in you aren't going to answer my question