How to ride a dick if you're a big girl?

[Anonymous]

Do you move your hips front and back, or do you literally jump squat up and down on his dick? I'm always afraid I would crush him or hurt him. He is a big guy himself, tall and muscular, but I'm still afraid I would hurt him. Especially since his face makes these grimaces that people often equal with cringing (like in pain), but when I asked him whether he's in pain, he says no, all good. I'm just still not sure which way to go to get the best rythm and where I as a big girl can do this for the longest time.
Any other tips on cowgirl for big girls are appreciated.

[genericname85]

hips front to back (otherwise known as grinding) usually feels better to the girl. guys like up and down more.

you are right about being afraid to hurt him, cause if it slips out and then you go back down, you might actually crush it. but hat´s not a "big" girl problem, that can happen with the tiniest girl also. otherwhise by just slamming hard down in his groin, you pretty much can't hurt him as long as you don´t bend his dick.

if he does those faces, it´s a good sign xD you´re not hurting him. peoples pleasure faces are weird :D

[TadCurious]

You're not gonna hurt your guy. When you're on top just straddle him with your weight on your knees down on the bed. That way you don't have to support yourself by squatting which would be tiring for you. So if your knees and lower legs are resting on the bed you can easily move up and down or side to side or grind front to back.

[TadCurious]

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[Asker]

I'm also worried that grinding front to back might twist his penis in a painful way

[TadCurious]

Well as you know, when a guy's penis is hard it "wants" to point upward toward his belly. Even so, it can still bend forward (toward his feet) a good way before it would be uncomfortable. So unless you bend it too far forward when you're on top you don't need to worry about hurting him. Penises are really pretty resilient actually.

[Asker]

I just don't want to send him to a hospital cause I really enjoy fucking him. And I'm always paranoid about my weight (around 190 lbs) making others feel uncomfortable

[TadCurious]

I know you're concerned about this, but try not to let the fact that you're a plus size girl prevent you from enjoying the girl-on-top position. For some girls being on top is great 'cause they can grind and get clitoral stimulation. And they can control the depth of penetration by going up and down on the shaft. And I love girl-on-top 'cause I can give up control in that position and watch what the girl is doing. It's a real turn on to watch the girl go up and down on my penis. So don't let your weight get in your way of enjoying this position.

[Asker]

How do you get clitoral stimulation while riding a guy? You have to put your hand down there then or have him do it, right?

[TadCurious]

You can lean forward and grind your clit against his pubic bone when you're on top. Or, like you mentioned, either he or you can stimulate your clit while you're on top.

[Blonde401]

MHO right here

[TadCurious]

Thank you for MH Guy opinion!

[Blonde401]

Don't squat up and down. Not unless you wanna literally break his dick. Jesus, no.

[Anonymous]

if he is musculr n big there is no problem

[madhatters4]

you won't crush him unless you put all your weight on him and weigh over 300lbs. so just put some weight on your arms. and do what you want (ride, bounce, squat, grind, etc)

[Valerie315]

She won't crush him even if she was 300. Some men are into the weight on them especially if things are wet and tight. Ride away as you do the confidence will come like @friendlydrugdealer said.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

It's about learning to understand your body. think of your body as the center of a circle and come up with choices of swaying your hips in a circular motion, front and back, up and down. my recommendation is mixing it up and switching directions every other minute so his body never gets used to the motion and keeping him off his ability to resist the pleasure.

I recommend you practice a bit but if you understand how to use your body, big girl or not, you can make any guy melt.

[Asker]

I'm not confident and overthink too much to be able to move like that

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

you can do it. trust me if you practice, you would be surprised what you're capable of. practice alone and take step by step. make it work for you than you working for it.

[SwolDishWasher]

Dont be a big girl

[Asker]

What a genius you are!

[SwolDishWasher]

lol i know

[LastNightmare]

reverse spooning

[Asker]

? That/s not riding

[LastNightmare]

that's riding.. you just need to spooning yourself on his cock.. just like baby crawling

[cchris987]

Come over my house and I'll teach you

[Asker]

no thanks.

[cchris987]

Your lose

[Asker]

You can't even spell...

[cchris987]

Correction auto correct can't spell

[MEDINHO]

Guys never say that they in pain

[salaciouscorndog]

if he says its good trust him. Its up to him to tell you yes or no. As for positions for "big girls" cowgirl is a great one. Its good for how deep he can go, you dont put all of your weight on him (although I would want that) and it leaves his hands and mouth free to explore your clit, your tits, your ass... Your boy is lucky.

[Anonymous]

Carefully!

[Anonymous]

dont... simply dont..

[Asker]

coward