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How to ride a guy?

So I want to take control during sex but I have never rode a guy before and I am completely clueless. I really need some advice right now.
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  • Just hop on hunny. Insert his cock. Lay on his chest and feel how his cock slides inside you. Study the angle and roll/flex your hips to mimic that angle.

    If you're not going to lay on his chest you need to have strong leg muscles to support yourself if you sit up and thrust your body up and down as his cock impales you. You can lean forward and use his chest for support as you.

    You can face towards him or away from him. If you gave away from him, put your hands around his legs just before his knees and use them for support. Holding below his knees won't allow him to thrust into you if you're really into that kind of control.

    At any time he can thrust upwards and meet you on your downward thrust. That, I can pretty much guarantee he'll do anyway. No man can lie still and let a woman just ride him. It'll eventually turn to him putting his hands on your hips. He'll subtly start to pull you down onto him, and eventually he'll start thrusting upwards. It's uncontrollable.

    As for your trepidation, just hop on. Come up from giving him head with his cock all nice and hard and wet. Throw a leg over and get on. There is no, "what do I do?" You just hop on. That's what you do. Don't give him a choice. Start thrusting on his cock like I just told you and trust me, he won't have a complaint.

    And if it's all about you being a woman, and demure, and ladylike and waiting for him to make the first move... ignore all of that. He's not going ask you to get on top. After you do it the first time, he'll ask, but not the first time. He's not that savvy yet.

    Just throw a leg over and get on. That's all the permission you need. Because you want to.

    • That was very informative and very hot at the same time 🥵🥵🥵🔥

    • Man... thank you so much... this was all I needed

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  • The trick is to just lose yourself in the moment and to not be focused on all of these distractions and "doing it right", just focus on what feels good to you and what doesn't. Find a position, a rhythm, a depth that feels good to you... whether you leave him deep and just move with it or you like a full range of motion and him almost coming out and then going all the way back down and him all the way deep inside... just be into him and do what feels good. Which ever way that is.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Just try it and figure out what feels good for you. What you see on porn will unlikely do anything for you. Generally a lot of "humping" motions back and forth is what feels best

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  • Mix it up to find what you both like. Try both cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. Try having him lay still while you bounce and grind. Then try staying still and have him do the work. Try hovering and putting all your weight on him.

  • Three different ways.


    1: Squat ride (very hot)


    2: on your knees, lean into him. Hands on his chest and twerk up and down (also super hot)


    3: standard riding. On your knees and bounce straight up and down. (Kinda boring in my opinion, but still feels good)

  • Reverse Cowgirl. Bounce and move around on that joystick in your twat back and forth.

  • Search for "Femdom ride" in pornhub

  • Just start doing it, and see where it takes ya. The only way to get over your fear, is to simply confront it

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