How to ride a man?

Guys I know... I'm gonna sound pathetic okay. Please don't laugh or judge me. My boyfriend and I typically do missionary or doggy. But yesterday when we went for about two hours of non stop sex we started wirh me on top. After I gave him oral he told me to climb on top. And guys I've only been with this one man my whole life. And we've never done cowgirl before. So I didn't exactly know how to move on top on him. Managed to get him inside me easily, but as for me moving I didn't know how to. He was sitting on the couch with me straddling him. But I wasn't sure how to bounce up and down or how you move to make the man feel good. He said he was turned on watching... and he knows I've never done that position before and don't know how to yet. But I guess I was embarrassed. And when we do it again... I wanna know how to actually ride him. It seemed hard because his frame is larger than mine. So while straddling I had to have my legs apart a lot. And I couldn't really figure out how to get up high enough to move. I sorta was struggling. But can some please tell me how to do this... cause he's so experienced and I'm not. And I wanna be able to please him to. 🥺

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  • You can sit all the way down, sit straight up and make hula moves with your hips with your pussy is mashed against him. Raise your arms up, put your hands behind your head, toss your hair, and revel in the sensations.
    Brace your hands on his chest and thrust your hips forward and back to stir him inside you while your juicy pussy is mashed against him. Tuck your butt under on the forward thrusts to take him deep.

    I really love the feeling of her juicy pussy pressing and rubbing against me, and bending and stirring her vagina with my cock. Cowgirl is the only position in which a woman can do that.

    I love watching a woman's boobs move and her hips and stomach undulate when she arches and hunches her spine to make her pelvis rock forward and back. And I love her facial expressions when she makes herself orgasm.

    Lean down, brace your hands on the bed next to him, and dangle your tits over him so that he can watch them, play with them, and stimulate your nipples.

    He can move his hips up and down to jack hammer you from beneath.

    You don't always have to be on your knees. You can stand on your feet and squat, brace your hands on his chest, stomach or knees, and rise up and down.

    With your feet on the bed, you can also lean back and brace your hands on the bed behind you.
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  • Could you use arm of couch or headboard for control? You could lean back and put your hands on his lower thighs and push that way but I've found It's not very effective. Tbh I would rather side saddle spoon than cowgirl.

    • I tried using his shoulders, and stuff for support but honestly I was struggling hard to figure out a good posture. I'm tiny compared to him. Over a foot difference and straddling my legs over his was a hard task on its own. But it's something I had been mentioning I wanted to do... cause I wanna make him feel good to like he does me during sex if that makes sense. And he seemed to think it was sexy... but I'm not sure cause at one point he started moving himself and moving me up and down while he trusted... so I'm scared I was awful at it 🥺 and after that he didn't ask me to be on top again... but we kept changing positions so I thought he'd ask again...

    • Don't sweat it. Exploration is the best part!

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  • 👍🤔 so first get the following out of your head. "I wasn't doing it right" "How to make it feel good for him"

    Done? Okay good :)
    That position is you, all you. Do what feels good for you. Sure you can look at videos online, try to replicate that. but I recommend doing what feels good for You.

    We like to be desired by our men. Men want that too, and being on top is a great way to make them feel desired. You do most of the work. You're pretty much using him as if he is some toy. Don't overthink it. Have him lay on the bed and start just experimenting.

    Move in a way that feels good... FOR YOU. And own it. You know that a confident man is sexy. That goes the other way around too! Own it, move how you want, how fast you want and find what feels good for you. Be in control and then "lose it" ;)

    That's how I'll ride mine in a bit 😊

  • Even when you are on top he still has quite a bit of controle of rythm if he wants to. Yes of course you can jump up and down but the big advantage cowgirl has is, that you can easily and much better use hip movements. The important part though is try to experiment.
    You can as others said watch Amateur porn and try to replicate but only after trying you will know what works best for you two. You can just try different things that might just feel the way to do in the situation and something might work really well.

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  • Just take it slow and enjoy the ride and the great orgasms

  • Don't bounce just grind

    • I was trying to do that... just felt like I was really bad at it since it was my first ever time trying. And I couldn't seem to get a rhythm

    • Slow grind or fast grind? Does front or reverse matter? Lol lady ♀️😋🤫

    • Do you prefer a rhythm @apple1996 or are you humming a tune in your brain? Lol 🤣😆

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  • There are plenty of instruction videos out there. Just go to any porn site and type in Cowgirl!

    • I've watched porn... and I don't know I'm still confused on how to do anything...

    • When you're on top, he can lift you up and drop you back down again as he thrusts up to meet you.. Starting slowly and getting faster as you get close to orgasming!

  • When you are on top the thing you must do above all is please yourself. If you get yourself off with his dick you have succeeded.

    • I literally cum like thirty seconds into any sexual activity with him. It's weird

    • Hm. That does complicate things.. maybe go for two?

    • I'm able to keep cumming. Like yesterday during the about hour and a half session we had I came probably more than eight times

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  • Youtube can help
    Basically just move your hips up and down and in between add some rotation

  • I assume he was the one that asked you out and courted you

    • Yep.

    • Why am I not surprised