How to ride dick like a pro?

When I have sex with my boyfriend I kind of grind back and fourth which feels amazing for me but I'm not sure if it does for him.
do men prefer bouncing instead of grinding?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Cowgirl tips
    Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
    • He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
    • Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
    • Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
    • Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
    • When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
    • When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
    • When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
    • As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
    • If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
    Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
    • Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
    • If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
    • He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
    • Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

  • I'm usually all for whatever makes her feel best and it all feels good usually for me. However sometimes the bouncing does feel better than the grinding. Sometimes my girl will grind really hard and the head of my penis hits something so the grinding is kind of focused on that spot and it gets a little too sensitive sometimes. But I don't stop her! :-P If you're concerned though, just ask him while you're doing it if it feels good for him. He's not likely to stop you either! lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ask your boyfriend, not a bunch of strangers online, what he'd like more/less of. If he'd like you to ride him faster/slower, etc..

    There is not a universal preference amongst men. It's an individual thing so.. just ask your boyfriend.

  • My boyfriend moans sometimes when i do that but he definitely likes when i twirl my hips in a circle n grind on him

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  • Bounce around, move that ass left and right. He'll be happy. Or you could let him try anal.

  • Look up Abella Anderson on pornhub. She rides dick better than any porn star I've ever seen. Do what she does.

  • Bouncing is a silly porn display. It is tiring for the rider and inexact each time she lands. Can go north (short pocked and g-spot), south (the long pocket) or ram the cervix (pain). Better to grind, zigzag and "hula". Change-up a lot.

    • Having a girl bouncing has always felt really good to me. Best is when a girl can mix it up all at the right times like you were sort of saying.

  • Any vigorous effort is appreciated.

  • If you are gonna go back and forth, come up about an inch off the base. This will reduce the pressure and discomfort for him.

  • Ask your man how it feels for him. Don't assume there's just one proper way to do everything.

  • always wondered how it feels like for womman?

    • So let me start by saying that i am barely beginning to be able to ride my man in any kind of meaningful way! But, it feels amazing!!! I am FINALLY beginning to master the basic wave-type motion while rocking back and forth and up and down at the same time---i swear my poor boyfriend has spent weeks trying to get me to move the right way----which I LOVE! whenm im rocking and bouncing a little the tip of his penis hits me directly in my G-spot and it never fails to induce multiple orgasms and amkes me squirt... its super dirty and super fun! LOL! I just started attempting to do the much more complicated wiggle thing ----you know where the chicks butt is wiggling side to side (got that) but trying to combine it with a hula hoop type deal--=---really really tricky! It also feels awesome, there is something so hot about being spread wide open and being so loose ---LOVE IT. This position doesn't get me off like the first as fast, but seeing my man's face while his penis is slipping in and out of my super wet and loose booty makes me feel like a goddess and like I am actually the one incontrol for a brief moment! The other thing about these 2 positions that sends me to Mars and beyond is how you can bury your penis so sooo soooooo deeply inside of the girl... I think I speak for most chicks out there when I says WWWWOOOOOWWWWW!!! rocks my world everytime! If you or anyone else has any specific tips on techniques that work well for either of these PLEASE PLEASE {PLEASE lmk! Trust me, I need all the help i can get! Hope that helped!

  • Bouncing is better for me,
    If you grind to long it can get sore

  • Your doing a great job keep it up

  • Variation required, first learn to grip the dick with pussy.

  • Variation required, first learn to grip the dick with pussy.

  • Grinding doesn’t do much for me. However if she’s on top I want her to get herself off basically. I can take over then to get myself off

  • Imagine yourself on a horse

  • It depends on the man. Bring sex up with him and talk about it with him. A lot of guys love looking into the girls eyes as she rides him. They also like playing with her boobs. I know some others get off making her orgasm while riding by ribbing her clit.