How to spice it up?

Any suggestions from the guys if you are in a sex rut of something a girl can do to spice it up?
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Superb Opinion

  • Do you have any sexual kinks you would like to try. It is better if it is organic.

    Do you wait for him to initiate?

    Probably most couples develop a routine because it works and both orgasm.

    Feminists complain about men regarding women as sex objects but once we stop regarding you as sex objects then sex takes a nose dive. You sort of start transitioning into a sister for all practicable purposes.

    Would help us if you tell us about your current regime. we all have our own quirks by the way.

Most Helpful Girl

  • My boyfriend purchased some mounts and straps online from a BDSM site so that he could strap me spread eagle to the wall. It's the same setup as being strapped to a bed, except I was vertical. He stripped me naked and then strapped me in.
    He tortured me for a couple of hours. He used a feather and other soft things. He only did it for maybe 20 seconds at a time and then we'd leave. You would come back and kiss my neck, my nipples my pussy, and then he would leave and play a video game.
    I didn't really catch it in the beginning, but the mount was right in line with the front door.

    He told me he needed to take the garbage out, and he did. But he left the door wide open.

    He came back, shut the door and did some more torture.

    Then of course you need to go outside and check the mail.

    Talk about spice. Lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well don't ask us. Ask him. You should sit down and say you want to hear what he is into, what he would love to do to you or with you. And please don't be Judgy, be open minded and think about it. Last thing he needs when being open about things is being judged.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Hot sauce

  • Butt plug and finger his butt. Amazing

  • If you aren't doing it already, fellatio, combined with anal/prostate fingering. I think this is the best thing a man can experience sexually. Its all pleasure and no effort. I believe it is straying insurance.

  • Two words... Or one word. Rimjob... He will love it.

  • Get some inspiration from porn, get some toys from a sex shop, try positions you haven't before, try different locations other than the bedroom, send sexy notes/pics, play sexy games, try roleplaying.

  • bow tie on his crotch lol

  • well, what do you usually do?

  • I'd have to know what you do, currently.

  • Role play is good, dirty talk, whisper in his ear what you want to do to him, send him naughty texts (sexting).

    Public sex, just not public enough to get caught and arrested lol, surprise himaybe in a public place with a blowjob.

    Feel free to DM me if you want to chat more to help you out

  • it all depends on your kink or fetish

  • Give him a pair of your dirty panties, that should do the trick!

  • try some kinky things like possibly a blindfold for sensory play,. feathers to tickle or light taps on her rear but both parties must agree on boundaries

  • watch porn together (amateur couples)... sometimes watching other people fucking can light a fire and give new ideas

  • So many different things like toys, costumes/roleplay, voyeurism, exhibitionism, outdoors, talking about fantasies, fulfilling fantasies, etc etc

  • Check some porn vidios and follow the fantasies you see

  • Try sex swing. Toys tied up threesomes etc