How to start ballbusting?

[Anonymous]

boyfriend wants mild/soft ballbusting with verbal threats and surprise nutshots. I'm happy to give it a try but have no idea where to start

[Avcfhcic]

Well Ball busting itself is easy, you just kick him in the balls, start lightly if you want, but it's as simple as that. Or you can hit with your hands or squeeze.
Weird fetish, I can't lie, but give it a go.

Verbal threats, just make him do things for you, and threaten him with pain like kicking his balls or something.

Surprise nutshots, just hit him in the balls randomly

[Asker]

is there a page for verbal threats?

[Avcfhcic]

You could watch other dommes doing it to guys to see what they say. I'm not going to comment because I don't know threats

[Avcfhcic]

Would you say you're a dominant partner?

[Asker]

Alright, thanks for that though

[Avcfhcic]

No problem! It is going to be weird at the start but hopefully you enjoy it somehow!

[Asker]

Not really but grabbing him by the balls and holding them in my hands does make me feel powerful

[Avcfhcic]

Then I think you might like this!

[Asker]

I hope I will 😝🤞

[Avcfhcic]

Let me know how it goes ☺️

[Asker]

I'm slightly worried that I might rupture them as they seem very fragile

[Avcfhcic]

They are very fragile for me anyway, but you see online people fully getting kicked, so just to what you feel is comfortable

[Asker]

I'll stay low for now then

[SteveSmith1985]

I have never seen a question I was less able to help with. Just wanted to say...

Good luck.

[SteveSmith1985]

Just... shaking my head through your updates...

[Asker]

Yeah it might sound crazy

[SteveSmith1985]

To each their own! (but yes it sounds crazy to me). I'm more marveling at how open and willing you are to explore this with him, and come here to learn more about it. You're a good girlfriend.

[NamerOfStars]

It's not something I have experience with, but as with anything that can cause harm- start gently. You can probably get away with flicking or slapping without serious risk (note the "probably"; I'm not a physician), but I wouldn't do anything more severe until you've experimented and established limits. Remember that it's better to go too soft and learn that you have to put in more force than to go too hard and put him out of commission for a while.

[Mickbert]

Slaps vs crunch to start. And when I say slap, I mean a gentle tap. If he doesn’t flinch or enjoys it, progress to a slap. Slaps to spanks, spanks to crunch.

[Asker]

Thanks for the suggestion. Any idea about how far it is safe? I mean the point after which they don't function properly or have to be removed?

[Mickbert]

If he’s able to not double over in pain then you’re good. If there’s any swelling then you’ve gone too far. It should be fun an enjoyable for you both!

[Asker]

Thanks for your suggestion. I accept that it was fun but I don't like him flinching and he can't seem to stop flinching so I'm not hitting his junk again. Thanks, anyways

[Karate_Aaron]

Did you really stop just because he flinches? That seems kind of unfair! lol

[Anonymous]

don't bust them too hard, keep it safe, they are sensitive part of the male body, bullbusting can be erotic sexual play but risky too.