How to start becoming a succesful sugar baby?

Female_assasin Xper 5

What is exactly required? or it depends on your luck?

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MrOracle Influencer
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Know from the start that being a Sugar Baby DEFINITELY means having sex with the guy, but more importantly, it means being AVAILABLE to him when he wants you, PATIENT with him when he doesn't have time to give you attention, and DISCREET and not telling anyone about your relationship with him. That's why he's willing to spend money on you - and if you can't do those things, not only will the money stop, but he's likely to warn everyone he knows that you can't be trusted and to stay away from you - advice they're likely to heed.

A man with plenty of money won't have a difficult time replacing you - and won't hesitate to do so if you become a difficulty for him - so you need to understand what you are committing to. I'm assuming you're not going to be happy with a couple hundred bucks a month - for that kind of money, you can make rules, but if he's paying thousands of dollars a month for you, HE is going to be making the rules, and you either agree or you head down the road. That's just how it is.

There are girls who manage to have their own (nice!) apartment, a nice car, and get college paid for with such arrangements, but you'd better believe that they pick up every time he calls, and show up ready for whatever he wants whenever he wants her, and they don't share his business with anyone. That's the job, and if you play it well, you can do well. If you play it poorly, you'll quickly get to the point where the only ones who will deal with you are the guys who can only spend a couple hundred a month.
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- Female_assasin
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  Yikes, that sounds like slavery, being a prostitute at least you'll have your free will and dignity left.
- MrOracle
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  It's not slavery - the Sugar Baby is free to walk away from the agreement at any time, just like any other job - but just like any other job, the money will stop too. I'm certainly not suggesting that it's something that very many women are able or willing to do, but obviously some are. But it's very naive to believe that you're going to get some guy to give you a bunch of money (and the right guy may be spending $5000-$10000+ a month on you) just so you can hang out and talk. He can get girls to do that for free. He's looking for a significant return on his significant expense, and if the girl can't or won't provide it, he'll look elsewhere. Nothing prevents a girl from getting a job and paying her own way, but if you want to live a VERY comfortable life off of someone else, there's going to be a different kind of price to pay. That's just reality.
- Female_assasin
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  No i totally agree with u, but the job requirement is just humiliating, living totally as someone else's expectations, at least, with prostitution, it's only your holes, not your soul lol
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- MrOracle
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  Sure, but with this situation, you also get to have a lot of fun and a very easy life. And you only have to sleep with one person - not an endless succession of strangers, some of whom may have bad intentions. A Sugar Daddy is rarely going to be violent or otherwise dangerous - they mostly want discretion.
- Female_assasin
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  A lot of fun and easy life by being a slave to a rixh master? naaah i might as well sell my soul to the devil, i heard it creates wonders.
- Female_assasin
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  Plus, you might be sleeping with one man at that moment, but what happens as soon as he replaces you? you'll have to look for another, and then another, so the cycle goes on.
- soleil2666
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  @Female_assasin - so, eventually, you'll be back at just looking for a job. The question is how damaged and traumatised you will be by then - by your slave master, or by your non-sexual career. There aren't any shortcuts, ignorance doesn't pay, no matter what your favourite political party advertises - and considering boomers are nearing the ends of their lives right now, they largely don't care (the whole free education and free advice to set you on the right track machine they had access to it all but gone - right now your global options are to keep quiet (and suffer) - or to keep quiet and suffer))
- soleil2666
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  And, before thinking a prince will save the day for you (courtesy of the iEverything) - if you intend to marry someone much richer, him and his family will set the rules anyhow (they have demonstrated they know how to navigate what needs to be done much better than you have). You have the 'knight in shining armour' option - perhaps (we're wired for that stuff) - but that is, on the inside, highly inglorious (imagine sweating in that armour), not spectacularly financially rewarding (the more money you have the more of a target you become for all sorts of ill intentions) - it really is only love that can be stupid enough to go forward with any of that stuff. But it is how the human kind has survived for thousands, if not hundreds of thousands, of years. Go figure...
Jjpayne Editor
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Well... I suppose... You get a job at high scale classy gentleman's clubs. Now for this to work, you need to pleasure your man. You find out about a guy and you ask about him and see if he shares or bites. Then you decide to get closer and more affectionate and see what he does with it. Clubs like that probably have that against the policy... But also being a sugar baby is not the highest quality of life a person can have...
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Lliam Master
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Look good in a dinner gown, bikini and lingerie. Be confident in your own skin. Have good taste in clothing and appearance. Have an air of sophistication so that you can attend parties and events with rich people without seeming out of place. Know how to be sexy and confident in intimate settings. Treat your sugar daddy like he's special. Be discrete and trustworthy.
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- soleil2666
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  I used to equate it to a hooker, but from your definition, kind of changed my mind
- Lliam
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  @soleil2666, I've never been in a position to be a sugar daddy. But after readine Female_assasin's comments, I started thinking that a sugar baby would be someone a sugar daddy would like and want to hang out with. He would be proud to be with her. I mean, he could always just buy a whore if all he wanted was someone with a collection of holes to do with as he wished.
- soleil2666
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  I have met one or two aspiring ones, thinking these were regular dates - your description sums it up well. Or rather, that's pretty much the only thing anyone would pay for. (The other being to have a 'spare' wife while his woman is deciding if she will stay with him or not - but I believe that's a Russian man-of-money story)
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- Female_assasin
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  Yikes, that sounds like slavery, being a prostitute at least you'll have your free will and dignity left.
- soleil2666
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  What did you expect - that someone will pay you for YOU to have fun? You can charge people for that, you don't have to pay them, you know the cruises and the excursions and experiences etc.
- soleil2666
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  Dignity, as a prostitute - where did you get that?
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 at least as a prostitute only your holes are owned and not your soul 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ i do believe that dignity is subjective though
- soleil2666
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  @Female_assasin Aha, right... So you are aiming to monetise your good looks rather than to work and be someone's wife. But only those objects, holes, right (I suppose you either like or intend to like anal sex). It's just that YOU will objectivise your own sexuality (those 'holes') - and then complain to your girlfriends so they can blame MEN for objectifying sexuality (rather than treating you as a person). To make sure you are treated as a person, the 'patriarchy' must ban prostitution, so you can be one - work, like everyone else, find a husband you love (just like he has to love you). What you are aiming for is to have a billion dollar company on the basis of 'just hiring someone who will make you one' - of course, paying no attention to the fact the person who can build one won't look to be hired by someone to just grab it from them. Welcome to the real world. Where the deviations are permitted, you will still be the one bearing the consequences - no blaming men for your own idea of selling looks for money (and no, modeling doesn't pay, and neither does acting - that's all make-believe for unsuspecting victims that want free money). Playboy would have been your best bet, but no one came out of that happy - your 'holes' are the most intimate parts of your soul - you can't decouple them without risking serious mental illness an estrangement from yourself.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 disgusting how you consider the my holes to be the most precious parts of me, while i have many other things to contribute to me and my personality , you don't even make sense regarding your other paragraphs judging me based on your previous experiences with other women, i have never blamed any men for my choices.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 bruh, i'm not even planning to be any of them, i just ask those metaphorical qns to see what people think, i didn't want to admit it but u made me, and now get your annoying ass out of here lol
- soleil2666
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  Why you consider your most private parts to be just holes is beyond me. How you manage to put the 'disgusting' in the same context is even more puzzling. I'm not judging you nor am I your enemy - you won't blame men, some other women will, based on your experience. Men with money set the rules - not just for you, but for me as well - to a large extent, they can set the conditions of what they want - you can accept it or walk away. If another woman does accept it, you lose. And the market is huge. I didn't create it, I am not maintaining it, I am not participating in it. Just commenting.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 i'm not planning to even marry a man for his money let alone go under one for money or profits, as i stated, i just want to understand what most people think about it, because they seem to like one form of prostitution yet totally shun down another form, but at the end of the day, they are both considered to be prostitution.
- soleil2666
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  If you look into it any deeper, you get to Marx and division of labour - between a man and a woman (while raising children). The bit that no one wants to admit - or respect - is the 'who does the cleaning'. If she does it, she feels disrespected, if he does it it's offensive to his masculinity. Not that there is anything so hard about it, it's just that the perceptions around this simple matter are so incredibly loaded with disagreement and drama (you can hire help - but then if it is a made you are a slave owner, if it is family you are abusing your elders etc). Incredibly stupid, but half of the world is busy arguing over it.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 Yeah, but there are matters where the hypocrisy and the contradicting nature of humans just shines through like bright day light, for example, the differences between a bikini and a piece of lingrie, even though sometimes, a bikini can be skimpier than a lingrie, women find it totally ok to go around wearing it, though it's totally a diff story when it comes to lingrie.
- soleil2666
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  Cleaning in (skimpy) lingerie 🤣? Sure, whoever, me or her. I think the thing breaks on 'what are we going to teach our children'. Or perhaps on whether you walk around in underwear while cleaning when the children can notice that, or whether you have to be dressed - and how - so they get the right role model. Plus nobody wants to think of a relationship as babies pooing and having to wash them until they are like 5 or 6 - the woman wants her money, not to clean child poo. Not even paying her money to clean child poo will do - because those 21st century children should not be pooing.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 you need help , you twist my words without even understanding them, look, i don't know what u have been through with other woman, but know that it's no ones business nor it's our responsibility to compromise you, so get some help before u totally lose it.
- soleil2666
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  Oi, if you don't get what I am saying, it doesn't mean I need help. If you do, please declare it as such. I wasn't insulting you but now will - I am not the one here looking for advice on how to become a hooker.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 see? you just proved my point, even though i have stated that i asked this qn metaphorically to understand the hypocrisy of some peeps and how they'd respond, you have still not got my words and continue on with your stupidity, you have truly proven how disgusting, vile and undisciplined you are, when will you behave and grow some brain cells? when the casket is closed?
- soleil2666
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  Lol. You're not my mom, nor an authority of any kind. Keep trying though, keep showing your persona - I don't mind.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 well, she surely doesn't seem to have succeded at being a mom.
- soleil2666
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  Depends how you look at it - by having a child, she has. In being a good mother, you can certainly argue that. But you are deflecting form being nasty - this conversation is about you, remember - I am older and much more of a moral authority here.
- Female_assasin
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  @soleil2666 if you think that older equates to being more moral, then u need more time to mature.
yuesper Xper 4
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Start by making yourself look good.
Men are shallow that way.
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- Female_assasin
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  Sometimes, looking good is not enough, u have to be smart at it.
wankiam Master
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most use sugar baby/daddy introduction sites where all the basics are explained and understood before anything happens beyond chat
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Reaperbot666 Guru
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Dress, look and act like a bimbo (mindless fuck toy).

A. k. a. Kim Kardashian type
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- Female_assasin
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  Kim k is a legend , more so her mom , kris, she made billionares out of trashes lol
reptocarl Master
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You mean whore?
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- Female_assasin
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  She surely wouldn't be sucking your dick, so no , not a whore.
- reptocarl
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  A sugar baby is one that stays with wealthy men for gifts. In return she does what he wants. So yes a sugar baby is a whore in every definition
- Female_assasin
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  What if she has rules? i mean , if this is the definition of being a whore then marriage is a "whorish deal" as well, just think about it.
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- reptocarl
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  Not really because when the gifts run out so does she. Plus in today’s world the majority of wives work. You can have rules but it will limit your client list
KarenBacon Xper 1
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Get a job as a waitress in a country club.
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- Female_assasin
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  And how would that help?
- KarenBacon
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  You're surrounded by rich older men. I have two friends that work at a local country club. One is a food waitress, and the other is a cocktail waitress. One got a new car and the other gets her apartment rent paid for. The men aren't buying sex, they're buying digression and silence. (of course they're all married guys)
bangyourhead Guru
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You gotta be hot. Then get on a website that matches you to sugar daddies.
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COMMODOREII Master
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I wouldn't know nor would i want one.
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- Female_assasin
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  Well , that qn is definitely not for u then😆
- COMMODOREII
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  Nope i prefer women not girls
- Female_assasin
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  What does this have to do with my qn anyway? lol
Hypnos0929 Explorer
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Be incredibly attractive, be good in bed, know your worth (You may not be a 1,000,000 woman but you be a 50,000 one), be careful (nothing comes free so know who you're dealing with and how aggressive they can be), have people who know what you're doing and have a record of where you are (again follows the careful part).
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rockrewls Yoda
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Men with money can often be powerful and selfish, they get what they want.
Although you may not think you will have to have sex with them I guarantee you will, if you don't and/or you are not very good in bed, they will send your ass down the road.
If you try to set rules they will laugh at you, they are the ones with the money they set the rules.
It sounds like this may not be for you, if you already want to put restrictions on them.
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Anonymous
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You need to look good and have sex
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Anonymous
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Be hot and do an amazing job at servicing the D.
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Anonymous
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I'd imagine it requires good looks, an open mind and a durable vagina, anus and mouth.
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- Female_assasin
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  It doesn't have to revolve around sex though, i mean, its up to the girl to set up the rules.
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm pretty sure most Sugar Daddies aren't in it for the companionship.
Anonymous
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You have obey everything that your sugar daddy tells you and try to give extra with what he asked you for, that way will be best in town
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- Female_assasin
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  What if u don't want to do a certain thing? shouldn't u be the one setting the rules for your service?
- Opinion Owner
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  Yes i will be setting the rules for my service what i meant is if i am asking for something, you should be a pro on it and do a thing that compliments with what i asked for
- Female_assasin
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  What if the thing he is asking for is not included in my services?
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- Opinion Owner
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  Thats decided when you sign agreement with like your charges, working hours and whats included in your service
- Female_assasin
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  Oh ok thnx