1. Foreplay.. Make sure you are wet after foreplay.. If not, it's just not enough or ur not really liking what he has been doing.. Say it if u want more.. You won't feel sore due to friction..
U can initiate by watching porn together, kissing, touching each other and teasing each other's sensitive area like nipples, neck, butt, pubic region, which ever u feel...
2. If you can't reach ur clit in positions u like to have sex, make him do it... The whole purpose of a partner in sex.. If he's just gonna penetrate without getting u wet or not satisfy you completely, might as well use a dildo... Don't get what he does as a partner..
3. To make him last longer, keep him interested.. Show him ur enjoying what he does and tell him to keep doing it till u orgasm or ur wet.. May be u also return the favor by giving him a blowjob or handjob or caressing his balls or whatever u feel he likes.. Sex should excite both people..
But all this works well only if he knows where ur clit is... Show him if he doesn't...
just get in there... stop being a baby lol... your hand reaches
Personally, I get the most clitoral stimulation while on top and leaning forward, either lying down or with my hands on his chest or shoulders. Back and forth motions do the job, since my clitoris is directly rubbing against his pubic bone and his "member" is deep inside, and rather thick, so it stimulates the G-spot at the same time, which is something I'd recommend as well: figuring out if stimulating your G-spot will do the trick for you. If your man is a little smaller width-wise, you can Google the positions that are best for that!
what about reverse cow girl? it should stimulate your clitoris also
@BIGboy12 I'd be more wary about that, as I can't be too rough on his balls, lol
Do you use sex toys to stimulate your clitoris?
Just tell your partner to rub it for you. My boyfriend stimulates my clit all the time. Any position where you are on top is usually very good for clit stimulation.
I also think you need a longer foreplay. Make sure you're really turned on before taking his penis inside you.
Yeap I agree. longer for play is good. i always make my partner orgasm during foreplay before she starts to satisfy me
Just reach down there and polish your Pearl! He's gonna move a little to give you room, from what I've heard and read a lot of guys get pretty hot seeing a girl rubbing herself.
Getting him to go down on you longer, ask him to stay at it and finish the job, until you orgasm.
Thank You!!
It's not possible in every position, try different ones to see what works.
Communicate. Tell him what you want, what works and what doesn't.
A completely different option would be a small vibrator, so you don't have to reach with your arms.
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How do you like it
2nd that one. Rocking forward/backward not up/down. Crazy good.
When doing missionary, place a pillow underneath your ass and make sure he is laying down flat on top of you while he is thrusting. His pelvis will stimulate your clit and you will be bussin alllll kinds of nuts... all kiiiiinds. Unless his stroke game is weak.
For extra credit, wrap your arms and legs around him to bring him in closer. A slight rocking motion from you also helps to get the job done. It NEVER fails when done correctly.
Doggy is usually pretty good for the woman to self-stimulate. Another is Flat Doggy where you start out in doggy and, uh, go flat. You might reach under and rub your clit that way. A girlfriend I had would do that and tighten her pelvic muscles to add to her pleasure, while rubbing her clit.
Usually the pubic hair or pubic mound can provide INDIRECT stimulation during certain positions. You can try missionary and have him lean closer in like an incline and have him grind against your clit while inside you. If doggy, he can reach around.
Well it does provide small stimulation but not enough to really make me orgasm
The missionary?
Yeah
Everyone has really covered the stimulation part, more foreplay and tell him to do it.
How do you get him to stay down longer?
Wrap your legs around his head and just don't let him up lol
My ex held me down so hard I thought she was trying to drown me
That's why it's recommanded to last longer in foreplay before jumping to the hardcore.
"Also how do I get him to go down on me longer?"
Date an older guy. I am down there with my gfs until they say enough already.
"How to stimulate clit when having sex?"
You can use a vibrator in the doggy position fairly easily.
With practice, you should be able to have an orgasm with penetration. But you will have to find what works for you. Some women can do it as woman on top, some with their legs up in the air, some any which way.
Manual clit stimulation is mechanically easier in rear entry positions - spooning or doggy for instance. Either of you can do it. You can do it while riding him. In missionary he needs to be a little more upright so there's room and generally you'd have to be doing it. Have him thrust slooooowly till you start Cumming.
A few items and methods: vibrating cock ring, icy hot on the clit, or cowgirl sex.
Got to do foreplay longer. But there are also sex positions that offer an easy way for your partner to stimulate your clit while fucking. For example my personal favorite is the Hot Seat or the G-whiz or the Stand and Deliver. There are many more sex positions that make it easy to reach for the clit while having sex
The foreplay isn't very long and I'm not sure how to really extend it out
Extending your foreplay is actually not as hard as you think. Foreplay could be kissing making out, handjobs, blowjobs, fingering, eating out, anything that will turn you on. At least in my opinion I believe it's the man's part to do most of the work in the foreplay. When I pleasure a female that's already my foreplay, turns me on like hecka crazy. That man should start off slow like making out kissing you your neck slowly and giving a gentle blow of air to the neck, he then should slowly work his way down to your body by the time he gets to your vag you should be really turned on. And by the time he is done with foreplay you should be dripping wet. A really good foreplay makes sex seem so much better as well
Yeah cause I'm not really that wet when he puts it in and the friction has made me sore down there. So I should suggest a lot more foreplay then?
Cuff him, hop on, cowgirl style and stimulate your clit with your fingers as you ride him
Some girl on here said rubbing his dickhead on her clit does it for her
As others have said, longer foreplay, don't rush to the main act.
Ink I know better how to stimulate a clit without having one.. u gotta be kidding...
Rub it to the speed your getting fucked when he's hitting it deep and hard or hard and fast rub it fast
God lucky guy! Anyhow just tell him straight out that he needs to make you orgasm tell him how and what you want him to do! Woww, I myself am not shy about asking a girl what I can do for her that will make her orgasm each one is different, I have a lot of experience with it lol am older and am extremely good at making a girl have a huge squirting orgasm with my tongue and two fingers!! Yummy, especially when the girl thrusts her hips up asrches her back and screams when that firs t huge contraction hits and she squirts her cum alk over me, omfg! Yummy!!!
Ride him and rub ur clit at the same time. i love watching when the chick faces me and rubs herself while we have sex. or doggy style and he can rub ur clit for u
girl. damn thats hott. lol. u would enjoy a halls cough drop. lol. have him suck u with it in his mouth. after about 5 min lightly blow cold air on u. lol. u will enjoy it😁if he can't do it. hit me up. lol. ill please u. be good. i hope u get satisfied
I’m pretty sure most positions you can reach it.
tell him to use his dic k and finger same time.
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