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Sexual Health How to stimulate clit when having sex?
Anonymous
Uh so I just started having sex and I can't orgasm with penetration only so I need to stimulate my clit The problem is most positions i can't really reach down there or sometimes he is on top of me and I can't get down there Also how do I get him to go down on me longer? I like what he does but it's never long enough to orgasm
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 31As far as him going down on you, just tell him to keep going and tell him it feels good guys like encouragement. For stimulating your clit, start out in a position that you can rub it while he is in you such as you on top or you on your back while he is on his knees Once you orgasm then let him do his favorite position so he can cum. I have had a girl rub her clit while we were in missionary position. It was not too bad.
what gets you off? that's all that matters.
I think you need foreplay too
Do you ever have a problem getting yours self of
No I always orgasm masturbating
Pm we chat see what we can work out
What about forplay
To get him to stay down longer.. make sure he knows how good he is doing and how much it turns you on to see him between your legs. Also, they make flavored lube he could lick or I like to use ice :)
You have to tell him to stimulate you wen he, s in you xx
Also he seems eager to go down thars good show him u love it xx
Rub yours and go on his d
U can follow me if u want
But yea rub and stuff
It will be fine
Haha
I don't understand. My wife rubs her clit all the time during sex. Why can't you reach it?
I feel like it's in the way lmao cause he's like on top of me
You probably want a really close position like missionary or girl on top where his pubic mound can grind on yours and stimulate your clitoris. Ideally he would make short strokes to maximize contact but a lot of guys seem to think women like jackhammer sex for some reason.
Tell him and get him a dick vibrator you will both like it.