How to stop being addicted to sex?

[Anonymous]

I am a virgin, so I’m not addicted in the physical sense. But whenever I’m living alone, which I currently am because of school, I will cum a bunch of times a day. When I’m not cumming, I am on Chaturbate watching videos all day or sexting and talking with guys on anonymous chat sites. Unless I have people around, which obviously keeps me from doing these things, I’m literally unhinged.

I guess I’m addicted to sex and romance as well. I want to be more productive and focus on important things.

[jaykumar123]

Why do you want to get rid of it?
Are you having any physical discomfort or feeling weak or lazy after it?

You are doing because its the body's need. I do it often. I am a virgin I watch porn I cum a lot, almost daily.
Trust me eventually its all gonna fade naturally. Today when our hormones are super active and our brain is free we are free to enjoy all of it. And I would suggest you to enjoy it if you can.

I would suggest to have mutual masturbation partner if you dont want to have sex.

Enjoy your life hon!

[RobT312]

Well, if you are a virgin, I can’t see how you are addicted to sex.
i guess you can be addicted to the idea of it. How do u know you like it if you haven’t even tried it?
go out there and have sex. I’ll bet you will find you are not addicted but just horny with a high sex drive like most people

[Asker]

It doesn’t matter. Okay, yes, I’m horny with a high sex drive. What I care about is how to stop it so I can focus on more important things in my life, like school.

[AwesomeCookie]

Some people have a higher sex drive. You should be fine if it's not overtaking your life but being an addict is difficult to break. Just as bad as people who are addicted to drugs... Maybe you just need the real deal

[Nagatoro]

I think it's just phases you go through. It happens to me sometimes. I get extreme horny highs and extreme lows. Just let it run its course and you'll be fine.

[laurieluvsit]

I have been trying to figure that one out for the best part of 20 years.

When you figure it out, please let me know :)

[ChrisMaster69]

Learn to live with it, try and add some moderation.

Some people are like this, sometimes for a long time, sometimes short spells.

it’s about adjusting to it, try and pin down what makes you horny and stick to that.

[ushagomez]

I agree that it sounds as if you need to find some balance but never give up on the pleasure of sex. It is the most natural normal pleasure that we can all enjoy especially when you find yourself the right partner.

[connemara_crocodile]

Maybe try bringing it down slowly? 🤔 You can start reducing it to every other day, and start doing other stuff

[UniquelyBasic]

Keep yourself busy and stay off the internet. I had a problem in 8th grade where I would masterbate all day so I joined the Boys and girls club and it was a good way to stay busy and burn energy.

[Asker]

What’s the boys and girls club?

[UniquelyBasic]

Its a place for kids to go and just hang out. I went after school with friends waiting for my mom to pick me up. You can just do homework or play basketball or play pool. Its a really cool place to meet new people in a safe place

[n4meAL]

I've read that porn and sex addiction can make memory decline.

it can make someone a little stupid.

[PhoenixAl]

You need to have real sex!
Stop online stuff it makes it worse.

[elizamichale1]

But why do u need to stop

[ravagesavage]

There's your problem. Occupy your mind with other by doing other shit and cut those triggers out.

[VikingWarLord]

Get a boyfriend or a FWBs for the time being to let your urges out.

Holding it inside and doing all that playing online keeps the fetish going. When you get the real deal, it doesn't take much of your time. Then you can go focus on other things. DM me, I'll help you with all that

[skytatoe]

You don't you have a high sex drive, you need to get physically fucked hard for you to be physically tired for you to not get the urge lol

[clampfan101]

I know how you feel. Did you want to talk about it?

[Neko_Nya]

Girl I'm the same, enjoy it

[OddBeMe]

Everyone is as a virgin. My advice would be to stop making it a goal. The goal should be a relationship. Sex is a byproduct of that.

[hellknight666]

Find a way to distract yourself or if ya need another $exter

[michael1469]

Ummm... isn't that important?

[Anonymous]

I have been like this too it’s tough but distracting yourselves helps but maybe try having sex

[Anonymous]

Your a virgin over 25?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Opinion Owner]

Saving it for marriage or something else?

[Asker]

Not really, although the idea of saving it for a guy I really love is kinda nice.

[Opinion Owner]

Just bringing it up because it seems that society and the media or culture, makes it out to be that 25 is the starting age number or just the beginning age number in which people are considered to be in the extreme minority for being a virgin or just when it's no longer socially acceptable for someone to be a virgin

[Asker]

Well, I’m definitely not normal, I know that.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you saying you've never dated anyone either?

[Asker]

Yea. Once I went on a sort of group date.

[Anonymous]

Not going to happen