How to stop being horny all the time?

Basically since I started puberty I've been very very horny like all the time and I'm starting to think it's kind of abnormal.

I feel like it causes me to make bad decisions and I really just want it to stop. Does anyone have any tips for not being wet?
Is it going to be like this forever? 🥺
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell all the boys. haha no but if you want a sound answer I will give it but I like the first one better. Okay so sexual energy can be transmuted. Sex is one way to use it and it is the lowest form of sexual expression. If you want to use your sexual energy on something other than sex then you have to focus on something else. Focus on something that really excites you. Maybe you could start a business or learn something new that you care deeply about. What do you wanna be in life? Start being it now. Don't wait until some random meaningless date. Work on killing it at school and building self discipline. Focusing on something else or even many other things is how it will go away or you could just masturbate like many times and it will go away for a bit. If you attempt to just control it you will fail. The energy must be expressed in some form.
    That is the best answer you will ever find. But you should be grateful a high sex nature is a gift if used correctly and not simply on sex. In fact if you wish to know how it relates to genii you might try studying Andrew Carnegie and you'll be surprised to find Edison is not so different from you.

  • There's no ways to stop feeling horny, if it's possible then people would use it trust me, it's not abnormal to be horny all the time, masturbation helps to ease the horny part but also find some hobbies to keep your mind distracted from feeling horny or think of things that are not sexy.

    But being horny all the time is not abnormal, it's natural, especially at your age.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I was (and still am) the same way, though not all the time now. It’s totally normal. Just let your rational mind guide and control your horniness, stick to fantasy and masturbation unless it’s someone you really like, and you’ll be fine.

    • Thank you, I'm trying very hard to keep it to fantasy but at least covid makes it easier 😂 Does it get easier to deal with when you get older?

    • Yes. It does. Please be careful. Being horny can be super fun but it can also get you in trouble.

    • Ok, I can't wait 😂 Yh I've had a few near-misses with trouble 😅

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  • You are just hitting puberty darling, its hormones happes at this age so just chill and relax.

    If you want, you can involve into other activities like watching movies or anything you like to keep you occupied.

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  • Stop wearing tight thongs that massage your ring piece and clitoris would be my suggestion. How can you not be horny with those two be rubbed every step you take? Now if you say you don't wear panties then try removing the butt plug and love beads.

    • I wear boyshorts, i dont have anything like a butt plug or anything like that :v

  • How to stop being horny all the time?

    ...

  • You are being driven... by myriad generation's atavistic motivating DESIRE to reproduce.
    YOU, are 'wisened ENOUGH' to consciously FEEL it.

    YOU COULD undergo a tubal ligation IF you have NO intention to conceive a child yourself
    (you COULD always later CHOOSE to adopt) My wife's partial hysterectomy
    to cure her fibroids left her with her female hormones but radically reduced her sexual appetite.

    IF... that ligation doesn't moderate YOUR Libido at least you can 'enjoy the ride'
    confident of any unforeseen consequences, save possible STD's. ;)

  • It’s normal, just find a different out let.
    running, out for a walk, biking, gym,
    puberty is a kick in the boobs and just get used to it.

    if anything concerns you chat to mum, older sister, health worker

    • A big kick in the boobs 😓 Atm cus of the lockdown in my country I do indoor stuff like video games w/ friends, is that a good outlet?

    • In UK lockdown is a dead dogs dick. Chatting to mates, video games etc are great. Sitting quiet on own is not.

    • Bruhhh UK sucks rn now that's where I am too 😂 Thank you for your advice, it sounds like something I can actually do 😁

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  • I've tried in the more I tried the more I I get I've been on here doesn't really help because just reading questions or answering questions just gets me all fired up to

  • Lol it won't be like this forever and this is completely normal. Everyone has a different sexual drive and having a big one during puberty can feel like horny jail for sure lmao

    But what will help for sure is:
    Exercise
    Regular sleep
    Generally keeping your system regular.

    The more regular and consistent you can keep your body the better it will be suited to move and handle the horny chemicals in you.

  • Being horny is part of being a teenager. As you know all young guys jerk off frequently cause they are horny 24/7 but will never admit it. Just masturbate more to chill out.

  • Just masturbate morning and night like everyone else🤷‍♀️.

    • How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you?

    • @viveknaik32 ew gross mate.

    • What

  • When I was in college I had a lot of pressure to do well in my classes. I was horny too but studying came first. It seems to me if you could find something you are passionate about horniness, although still there, takes a back seat.

  • its normal to be like that and the best way to deal with it is through regular masturbation to relieve any frustration

    • I masturbate a few times a week but I've never "finished" It hasn't helped me very much

    • yeah you need to finish but practice makes perfect so maybe do it more often and keep going until you get there each time too

    • I will definitely keep trying, thank you^^

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  • Stand in front of the mirror and repeat the following, ten times:

    "BEGONE SINFUL THOUGHTS"

    Then bathe yourself in holy water 👌

    • 😂😂😂

  • You mightxwabt to consult a doctor on this

    • It's kind of an embarrassing thing to say to someone in person without any kind of anonymity

  • I wish I knew girls like you when I was your age. Seemed to me I was abnormal and none of the girls were interested. They probably really were just didn't have internet to express it.

    If you give in and start having a lot of sex, you'll only want more... but eventually a few years down the road you'll always want it, always like it but won't think about it non stop cause you know you've gotten a lot and can get more when you want it.

  • There are clinics and therapists who specialize in treating this. You're not alone in this.

    • I would not enjoy discussing this with some therapy guy face to face 😓

    • Not guys. Therapists are women. And some clinics are like retreats with other patients present for support purposes. You'll have to find them online.

  • Why would you want to fix that?

  • Being horny all the time is natural at your age; this is how the human race continues to exist! This is why people masturbate; a means to satisfy the urge in a safe and private manner.

  • I'm always horny. I make no bad decisions because of it.

    • You never really want to do things you'll regret?

    • Do I want to? I certainly feel the temptation every single time, but I don't. I don't let it control me.

  • It's normal given your age

  • Wait for your teenage years to end..
    It will calm down and you will be able to control your urges..

    Until then regular Masturbation will help you keep your mind clear enough to continue your studies and make decent decisions.

  • How much under 18?
    Why don't you DATE?

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