How to stop feeling sad?

[Anonymous]

I'm a modest girl, I feel sad that I only attracted to guys who only wants to get into my pants. but some of them made me attracted to them and I listened to what they want which is sext with them. and after several times we did, I wanted to stop because I feel it's wrong. but then they called me whore.

the current one, didn't call me whore and i feel like I fell in love with him but I feel sad. starting this year we rarely sext.

so I'm dealing with sadness, sexually frustrated, I don't want to sext with other guys anymore.. I can't even focus on study at all.. and I couldn't stop thinking him in sexual way. I feel dirty when thinking him..

I ever asked him several time that we should stop if he no longer want me. but he never answer that.

[Valnac]

At your age you should be experiencing hormones, and are horny all the time.
That’s normal and every girl goes through that. It doesn’t last forever.
I suggest lots and lots of masturbating, it’s safer than going out and fucking some stranger.

[Asker]

is it normal for a guy doesn't feel sexual frustrations at all when he is always busy with work plus he's in 30s?

[Valnac]

That sounds about right!

[Anonymous]

It’s hard to stop especially if u get a good one. Hehe.

[Asker]

it's not funny. I feel like it's difficult breathe dealing with sadness

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn’t laughing as in a funny way.

[Asker]

then why laughing?

[Opinion Owner]

I was doing the hehe as a guilty type of laughter as in I was guilty too

[Asker]

okay..

[igravenbunny]

Bruh, dont sext with a guy before dating him... Hell see you as a fucktoy. Rule number 1.

[Asker]

he won't change on how he look at me?

[igravenbunny]

No, dude. Its a fact that he won't respect you as a romantic partner if you get sexual with him too soon.

[Asker]

what's it like when he won't respect me as a romantic partner?

[igravenbunny]

It means he doesn't respect you as a romantic partner..

[Asker]

even though we don't sext much?

[igravenbunny]

yes.

[Asker]

have you ever experienced like this?

[igravenbunny]

No, because I've grown up in a traditional household. I've never sexted before getting married to my husband, tbh.

[ColHathi]

That sucks :/

[Cowboy6666]

ever met him in person babe?

[Asker]

we were only video call

[Cowboy6666]

are you sure you love him seriously?

[Asker]

yeah. he's most gentle guy I knew than other guys.

[Cowboy6666]

you both are in same country?

[Asker]

no. I knew him from gag

[Cowboy6666]

thats cool, i never chat with a GAG girl in video call girls are far away from me LOL

[Asker]

I started to like him more when we did naughty things in video call, and after that we would have normal conversation things outside of sexual stuff.

[Cowboy6666]

so you expect naughty chats all time?

[Asker]

no. I just wanted to see him..

[Cowboy6666]

see him in person?

[Asker]

ofc not yet 😭😭😭😭 different country!! 😭😭😭

[Cowboy6666]

i have encountered this problem too girls are far from my country

[Asker]

and whole countries dealing with pandemic. even if you got money, but still you can't travel

[Asker]

by the way where are they from 😂 it's pain in the arse when liking someone outside country.

[igravenbunny]

dUDE, gag is the worst place to meet a guy. there are so many worthless horny fucks on here..

[Asker]

@igravenbunny but he's no longer using gag after a month we met..

[Anonymous]

Girl, you ain't got real problems. Lmfao

[Asker]

thanks for being a troll:)