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  • You need to pray and I will pray for you. Another way is taking a cold shower. But don’t give into the lust… because the more you do. The worse it gets.


    You can’t have it both ways. You seem to want something real and beautiful with someone. But if lust takes over…. You could cheat on him or have sex with someone… and now you’re not with someone for the right reasons.

    • He is a beautiful person He may have left me be anyway. I am broken hearted over it. And want to learn from my ways

    • Yes asker I know what you mean as someone whose personally struggled with lust. How did he leave you?

    • He left me fucked up lol How did you help yourself with lust

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  • Get your mind onto something else

    see a therapist to figure out why you are hooked on him. Probably were intimate and he left you "longing". if he cut you out of his life and left, that's emotionally damaging. need to get your "self" power back, self worth and learn the core lessons from this, so you don't repeat. then you are free to find someone better. when you realize he isn't worth it, that is freedom.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why is it sinful? It is normal to be physically attracted to the opposite sex. That's how we're made.

  • Hard to say. Women tend to be more fickle about this stuff.

    Men usually compartmentalize and put any lust for a woman who's bad for them in the back seat.

    But women are far more likely to get attached and unable to see all the harm person's done

  • It's your choice. You stop by choosing to stop.

  • It's not sinful, it's normal

    Don't buy off on that biblical nonsense

    • We feel that way so we'll be motivated to have sex and procreate. Which keeps the human race in existence. Just like we get hungry to survive, we get horny to survive. If lust is a sin, then God has a sick sense of humor

    • Disagree all you want, nut case

    • No need to insult me for being honest.

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  • Shake it off your mind by disrupting the thoughts with other ones

  • Find better.

    • What do you mean? Find better?

    • How I stop obsessing over somebody is by finding something else that occupies me. Something better to focus on so you have no time or less or even No interest in the guy.

  • Why don't you just get with him?

  • Get him, for a night privately and Submit yourself to him!..

    Record a Consent video for that specific night, and Tell him, he has you for whole night, and he can use you and quench his deepest lusty desires!..

  • Objectifying people is always wrong. It is also a massive waste of time and energy.

  • Tons of women control their emotions being amounts men. Bring lustful is based on your sex hormone called oxytocin. That will never go away.

  • It isn't

  • completely natural

  • It's normal we have all done it just a phase it will pass

  • I don't believe in sins but it is wrong only if the guy you are lusting over is someone else's partner.

  • The best cure for a man is another man.

  • It's normal

  • Why feel sinful?

    • It's superficial. It's not necessarily genuine. Even though I care for him. Lust is very strong & I don't want to mess it up. Things that a re fast. Burn out even faster

    • I dont think so

    • Because she's a nut case

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  • Get him