How to subtly turn a guy on?

It's out second date and I want to get laid what are some subtle things I can do to turn him on?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Where should I start? ^_^ Try touching him, maybe run your fingers and fingernails lightly on the top of his knee. Stretch! That may sound stupid, but it turns-on quite a lot of guys. You can also keep crossing and uncrossing your legs or twirl your hair. If you got any questions feel free to ask them, I've been throught his quite a few times, haha :D

    • *thorugh this, not throught his :'D

    • Totally agree !!

    • Thanks for mho :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well it depends on the guy and how well you know each other and how much you trust one another not to share anything embarrassing. If it were me I would want the girl the force me to dress like a girl and make me wear panties for a week. But I'm into freaky stuff. I like being a fem boy once in a while.

  • Don't be subtle, just kiss him passionately, run your hand up his leg, and just whisper in his ear that you want him, go get that lovely dick girl!

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  • Well the best way is be directed he if you don't it can fly over his head on what your doing. Body language is everything. Be touchy let him touch you and go from there

  • wear a skirt without underwear, tell him this fact casually.

  • 1. Be female
    2. Don't be fat
    That's so rare in the Western world that's all it takes.

  • dont be too subtle... men can be good at missing the cues girls give. good way is to let him get a glimpse up your skirt and when you catch him looking, smile and open your legs just a little more for a moment... if you dare

  • I find that a girl subly licking her lips often turn me on. Also once I was having dinner with a girl, we were sitting facing each other, and suddenly she raised her hand and briefly touched her own breast (over her dress), and that turned me on a lot.

    • Also when a girl wearing a short and tight skirt bents over slightly in front of me, that turns me on too.

  • Invite him over or get yourself invite lol

    • Can you come over

    • send a pic

    • @imablow714 I'm not going on a second date with you lol.

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  • Kiss... A nice kiss.. a bite at his neck...

  • A lot of physical contact... start off subtle, like touch his arm, shoulders and chest and make it more intimate as the night progresses... that way, he will know where you're at and what you want out of it...

  • A view ideas come to my mind :D Wear cute dresses, try to keep good eye contact (that can be a turn-on by itself). Try to touch him, smile at him and be funny.

    You can also play with your necklace if you have one - that'll probably draw his attention to your chest. Also sticking your chest out while running your hands through your hair or while you tie your hair back is super hot!

    I hope I could help :D

  • lots of physical contact, Mother Nature will do the rest.

  • rub his cock over his pants.

  • Send him a naughty pic of u naked whilst sat across the way from him in public that will drive him insane xxx

  • dress nicely and small clean simples :D

  • grab his ass , give a wink , rest he will do

  • sit on his lap and whisper in his ear that you're not wearing any panties

  • hey lady which country are you from?

    • Australia (it says that in my profile)

    • but you look like mixture of Chinese or Japanese 😂😂

    • so you're asking about my ethnicity? I'm Korean and native American for the most part

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  • Touch, hugs, neck kiss

  • gently touch him on the arm, leg or shoulder. linger a little more than necessary. 'unintentionally' rub your boobs up against him, or even rub your boobs yourself. accidentally rub his crotch area. maybe accidentally spill something and wipe it dry.

    • True story

  • wear clothes that valorize your body, stay close to him, give a lot of eye contact, smile and try to touch him a lot.

  • Stop being a sloot. You're supposed to wait until at least the 6th date.

    • lmao no way I can't spend all that time with someone I'm attracted and not fuck

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