How to SUCK dick?

literally need insight on how to suck dick properly — i've had friends tell me that the girl needs to actually SUCK on the dick instead of just moving their mouth up and down the shaft, but what do i do with my tongue? would it feel bad if while sucking it stayed in the back of my throat away from the dick? or when i suck & move my head up & down, have my tongue pointed downwards so their shaft is moving up and down over top of my tongue, rather than just over top of the inside of my lips? please help as to what feels good, and some pointers as well! thank you all
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  • First know the 3 things that make a BJ greater than Ever :
    1/ show pleasure... Tease, moan, play with the cock, in order to make your partner excited. Excitment is not only physical, but psychological as well, it's so often forgotten...
    2/ make it last. It is easy to make a Man cum in few minutes. That is not the point. Make it last more than ten minutes, in order to give him Time to feel the situation and take each part of the pleasure you give him.
    3/ this point needs technic, edge him. Make him Come close to orgasm, and don't let him cum, in order to let him calm down, and start again. The more times he will be edged, the greater will be orgasm. It is related with the 2.

    If you want to train yourself, use teeth brush to discover and try your gag reflex.

    Use your tongue during the act, not only lips.
    The move I love, is when she holds me deep in her mouth without moving, and she uses her tongue to lick me...

    I like some bite some times. I often deepthroat or throatfuck.
    Handjob isn't my favourite during blowjob... I prefer to be handjobbed OR blowjobbed.
    I love it when she stops to lick me.
    And when she dildos my ass (or finger it), she give the hugest orgasms i ever had.

    Then don't forget to caress his balls... It always an arousing.

    And give a great final. Handjob him on your face, and clean up with your finger to swallow it. Or make him cum while sucking, and keep sucking till he is finished, then swallow (I like to be sucked by her mouth full of cum). Before swallowing you can show proudly your trophy.

    And about teeth, don't listen any body!!! Many guys, like it ! Then you'll need to try ( but t not the first Time) and feel whether he likes it or not.
    I like it much! Teeth are like throat : passionate! ;-)

    Here we are : in all this, pick ideas that can help you, and keep the others for later. Don't rush ^^
    But remember the three first points that are a basis to me... ;-)
    ENJOY!

  • Please focus on the tip and the shaft. These are the main erogenous zones and will make him hard instantly. That way you will have the notion that you are in the right track. It would boost your confidence.

    Second, use your fingers as well. Mouth and fingers can make an amazing combination and drives a guy wild. While doing so, just lick the tip with your tongue and feel the hard cock with your fingers... fondling it and feeling the veins and the huge boner! Feel his balls and tickle them with your fingers.

    If you have big nails, that's a plus! You can scratch his shaft and the balls with them... while you feel the hard cock and slowly and lightly massage it. Your mouth can now take the cock inside. Try to feel if that's making you horny as well. If you can't take the entire cock, make sure you use your fingers to help him get hard and horny, as I have described.

    For a beginner, I wouldn't suggest to swallow his cum. You might not like the taste. It might seem weird. You might have an urge to vomit that cum. That might make him sad. So don't do it. Make him cum on your boobs. He will like it and you will find it hot as well.

    See how it goes!!! Tell me.

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  • You can be random moving your tongue sideways, up, down etc but yeah a good suction is what can really help the guy to orgasm and blow his load.

  • Hey, I was confused my first time but I know what my man likes, you could also read some of the opinions below

    How do guys like dick sucked?

  • Your friends are right, actually sucking on it feels way better. Also, how your jaw open so that your teeth don't touch his shaft. It doesn't really hurt, but it isn't enjoyable either.

    And don't be afraid to flick your tongue up and down his cock, stroke him, use lots of spit, and gently jiggle his nuts in your hand occasionally. Honestly, if you can't get the actual sucking right, knowing how to use your tongue will take care of him just fine. A good blow job is a messy blow job,

  • on her knees, hands behind her back, mouth open wide with her tongue sticking out - that way we can throat f**k her deep until we cum - simple

  • Well, good is doing it however he asks you to, if he does say something at all. Get on your knees in front of us, firstly-- it's hot to have her on her knees for us. So! Basically, it's important that you actually SUCK. You have to keep your mouth tight on us. A lot of girls will sometimes just put us in their mouth but then not actually suck... you have to actually suck and keep your mouth tight, not so much that you're like trying to hurt us lol but tight. Secondly, idly play with our balls, lightly touching them with your fingertips, while you're on your knees in front of us. Don't slobber all over the place, but a bit of saliva is obviously no problem and we usually like it. You can use your hand a bit too, if you're good at that, in conjunction with sucking. Mostly pay attention to our tip but don't forget the rest of it either. With your other hand, if it's not on our balls, feel our abs or (even hotter) put it on our ass or hip. Lastly, if you're good enough at it to make him lose control, then when he finally does, swallow all of us and drink deep. Don't show any of it; that's gross. Keep sucking the entire time he's cumming, if you can. Good girls swallow.

    Oh... don't spit. That's even worse than not swallowing. If you don't swallow him, fair enough, he'll still be happy probably don't worry. But don't spit. Have him cum on your tits or face or tummy or something instead.
    Good luck out there.

  • It depends on the size. But mostly from the top to down. Which penis is large, you can hardly get to down.

    Big Penis and Tight Vagina ↗

  • I'd teach you, first hand, but Anon LOL yes she is sort of right... You can suck lightly and move up and down,.. Your not trying to put a hickey on his head, but your not blowing softly over it either

  • Do your research on porn videos on how to suck a dick and how to give blowjobs...
    You'll find many tutorials on porn websites

  • i can teach you
    suck my dick

  • just try

  • Sucking dick gives a great pleasure

  • Your tounge supposed to be swirling around the dick while sucking on it up and down,
    Trust me I'm an expert 😉

  • Just suck on your thumb and you can feel it.

    First just wrap your lips and tongue on the thumb and just move up and down without pressing your lips or tongue hard against the thumb. Notice how there isn't that much feeling.

    Now do it but press your lips a little more hard and press your tongue harder against the thumb and you'll feel pressure in your thumb.