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How to suck dick?

i’ve never done it and i’m scared to just go for it? what should i expect? and do guys care if a girl has never done it before or doesn’t want to?
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  • When a guy realizes he is about to get blown, he just hopes for the best. He doesn't want you to come on dramatic like Mata Hari but he does want you to be skilled. Tell him you read about it on the internet so you'd get it right the first time.

    Most girls do not know how to give an effective blowjob. They have to resort to trial and error because guys don't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and watched AV that ended in visible evidence of ejaculation. What struck me is how uniform they all were. In my experience, there really is a right way to do it.

    *What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. The goal is to get us hard and flowing precum, but not be near to orgasm, so his "tank" has time to fill. You will be able yo sense we he wants you to get on with it.

    There are some guidelines for the main event that I think are absolute.
    *A blow job is not romantic, interactive sex, it is one-way sexual therapy. You make it all about him. The best blow job is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing and sucking, slick, soft and smooth and the shaft wants vigorous hand stroking.

    *Once you start, never slow down, pause or stop. Build steady arousal to the finish. When he starts to buck and breathe deeply, go aggressive. Increase sucking and bobbing to as strongly as you will be able to sustain for several minutes. Break away hand stroking and go as fast as you can with a moderate grip.

    *He wants to cum in your mouth. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing. Suck only, but keep hand stroking, just a little more slowly, to the last squirt. Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum.

    *Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out. Deep throating is a useless porn antic. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat. Swallowing gives no direct pleasure but it can be ego-building.

    *There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious. He will be grateful.

  • Technically, flick his frenulum with your tongue. Look that one up.

    Have him draw a high water mark on his dick, and hit it every time.

    Do not play around. Light kisses and a will she / won't she teasing game has no place here.

    Dont forget about his balls, taint, and asshole. While as a rule, those parts are a source of great stimulation, it really depends on the guy.

    Pick a rythem and stick with it. Dont go changing speeds or angles too much.

    When he cums, leave his dick in your mouth. Facials are useless and a complete show stopper. You wanna look prwtty when you're fucking, right? If you get a facial, you have to go redo your make up. You will come back to bed to find him dead asleep.

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  • Try licking dick first and when you start feeling comfortable then maybe putit in ur mouth

  • If she doesn't want to she shouldn't do it. It isn't mandatory yet, although with President Trump you never know...

  • he will want to cum in your mouth

  • Ask Google.

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