How to take Girlfriend's Ass?

She thinks it would be Painful if I fucks her ass, I tried to make her understand that it would hurt her Once only ! but Still She Always make excuses by saying to do it on Next week ! So how Can i fuck her Ass? Is there Any good Sex position? I just need 2-3 minutes to get inside her !
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  • If she says no, you need to respect her wishes.

    If she is just worried about it hurting, try doing 69 and when she is ready to cum, start playing with her butthole. If she instantly gets more aroused, try inserting your finger just up to the first knuckle. Unless she is very wet already and there are fluids around her butthole, use lube on your finger.

    If that works, next time you do 69, use a small vibrator and double team her clit with the vibrator and your tongue. When is is very aroused and ready to cum, move the vibrator down to her butthole. If she seems to be into it, gently put some pressure on the vibrator so it starts going inside her.

    If that goes well, then you have anal sex the third time. She needs to be very aroused to be receptive, so use that vibrator on her clit while you suck her nipples and give her one or two orgasms. Then tell her to roll over and start massaging her back. When you work your way down to her butt, start licking around her butthole and gradually work your way in. If she's into it, she'll start moaning. Then try fingering her butthole, with lube. If she is still into it, then you whisper in her ear, "Let's try it." And you use LOTS of lube, and you go slow.

    The sphincter will stretch to accommodate your dick but it takes a minute for that to happen, so push inside of her and as soon as you are in, stop for a few seconds. Then push forward SLOWLY until you are fully inside her. The start thrusting SLOWLY at first and gradually go to a normal pace. Fondle one of her nipples while you are fucking her ass and she will start getting off on the experience. And tell her how great it feels for you and how much you want to cum inside her ass.

    Some girls feel embarrassed to admit that they enjoy anal play and they don't want to talk about it, but they are quite willing to do it, so don't feel that you need to discuss this with her later, except to say, when you are pulling out, "Holy cow, that was incredible!"

    But again, if she says no at any point, stop and if she asks you to pull out, then do it. Maintaining her trust is more important than fucking her in the ass.

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  • If you want your girlfriend to stay with you and want her to give you her ass regularly, this needs to be done correctly.
    If you think this is only a 10-minute thing, forget it and never try to get in her ass, or you make it very painful for her. If you want her to enjoy being fucked in the ass and maybe even asking you for it, you must do it right.
    The key is lots of foreplay, especially for the first time.
    # 1 Never try it without lube. Get right the lube, just anal use, and yes, it is different. www.womenshealthmag.com/.../
    # 2 Buy good condoms that won't break or come off & are for anal use.
    # 3 There are a lot of different oils you can use for doing a massage. Do a full body massage. This will help to relax her, including her happy endings. Now I know not everyone can do a full body massage. But if you can't. Am sure both of you will enjoy massaging her ass & pussy and her breasts?
    # 4 performing oral sex on her. If you have never done that to her? This the best time to start many women have said when it's done right. It is as good or better than intercourse. Every woman is slightly different as to what she likes. Stimulation to the clitoris and or the G spot; your girlfriend will give clues as to what to do, and how she likes it, and when she wants it done.
    Also, when your down there between her legs, among other things, to make her happy. You could be finger fucking her both in her vagina and her ass at the same time. Also, many toys could be used to gradually making her butt hole larger. Butt plugs are coming in different sizes and other toys too. All this depends on the size of your little Johhny or the green giant;
    If you're not performing oral sex on your girlfriend every time you two have sex, you should. Let me say if you do this on her first and are doing a good job. I bet that she will show you how much more thankful she is when you get your blow job.
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  • Your girlfriend has stated her limits, you should respect it. Don't force her into something she isn't ready for.

    Know she may NEVER be ready.

    No, it won't just hurt the first time, especially if she is an anal virgin. The anus isn't like the vagina. Can it be worked to the point where it becomes more comfortable? Yes, but it will take time, work, & patience.

    My ex, who was very well endowed, always wanted to try, & I let him, multiple times, but he didn't put the work into prepping me, nor he didn't use lube & it hurt like no tomorrow. I was in tears quite often because of this, & even told him what I needed & was ignored, because it was "too much work".

    I've been afraid to try it with my new boyfriend (again, well endowed) because of how much pain I was in. Even though I know he wouldn't hurt me intentionally, I still feel apprehensive about it. He's told me that he would love to do anal, but understands my reluctance (yes, I told him) & is willing to work with me so that it can be an enjoyable experience for both of us. He even admits it's more something he thinks will be fun & is willing to work up to, but has said he wouldn't care if it never happened if it caused me great discomfort.

    My suggestion? Progressively work up to anal. Start with eating out her ass for a while, then work your way up to stretching her with your fingers & toys, & end with your pleasure too. But it won't happen overnight, you will have to work for it.

  • If she’s not okay with it, don’t do it. End of story.

    It does hurt if it’s not done right, and if it’s something you want to keep doing you probably want to get it right the first time. Lots of lube (not just spit) and go slow. There has been a number of times my partner just started going like he would vaginal sex and it HURTS afterward.

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  • Read this, and have HER read it too, and then talk about it.

    What's the best way to do anal sex for the first time?

    If you follow my advice here, you'll make it a far better experience for her, and you'll be far more likely to have her want it again. If you only care about fucking her ass and don't care about her experience, she's going to hate it, and you'll never get it again.

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  • You need several weeks to a month to prepare. It's not a quick thing. You need lots of lube, and when you think you've used enough, use more. But first, start with a finger and get her used to that for several days. Then you can move on to 2 fingers and get her comfortable there. I'd also recommend getting her butt plug or a vibrator, something that isn't going to get stuck but be a little bigger next. Get her used to that and then you can try it with your penis. But if she is worried about relaxing because she is worried about the pain, I'd say have her do those things by herself, so she can go at her own pace. Once she is comfortable with those things, then maybe she will be ready for you. She must relax so I'd say go down on her 1st and get her off. You must go very slowly When you are going to put it in, if she should take a deep, relaxing, calming breath, it will allow her to take you in with very little pain as long as you goes slow. When she takes her next deep breath, you can go in a little more, but getting you in a little bit might be all you do the 1st time. If you really want to get to full anal sex, you have to be willing to go slow through the process or else she will hate it and never want it. Also, when you pull out, do it slowly.

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  • 1. If she doesn't want to do it, she doesn't want to
    2. Anal doesn't have to be painful at all if you prepare correctly
    3. If you don't do it correctly, it will be painful each time, not just the first

  • Pretty rapey to force anal on a girl when they dont want it.

    Anal isn't like breaking her hymen, if the way you does it hurts it will always hurt.

    So basiclly it sounds like you dont know how to do anal and she right to not want to do it with you, cause you think it should hurt and it really shouldn't.

  • Uh no, you wait till she is ready and says she wants to. Also, it does not only hurt the first time. Stop trying to coerce her into it. That is rapey.

  • Obviously she doesn't want to do it. And obviously, you keep bugging her to do it.

    • If We are in Relationship then how come she take decisions by Alone ! She has an Ass but I have a dick too ! I want to take her ass 💯

    • She happens to be an individual, not an extension of you. She has a right to say what she will and will not do, and does not have a responsibility to do whatever you want, just because it is something that you like.

  • Someone once forced anal on me and it does hurt and I bled for days. If she doesn’t want to you shouldn’t try to force her. Have you tried anal?

    • With her? No, With other Girl? Yes

    • I mean have you been fucked in the ass?

    • Lol !! I"m a Boy and Boys don't get fucked in ass ! But You girls get fucked in pussy and ass both ! 🤷

  • You may want to read up on the preparations needed beforehand there's quite a bit to list here.

  • Tell her you'll let her fuck you in the ass first 🤷🏼‍♂️

  • she doesn't want to do it, don't try to force her

  • Don't push her if she is not comfortable about it and not ready. Respect her wishes. NO means NO...

    Until she feels ready, she will let u know.

  • Show her articles from womens mags like Cosmo. If you start with a finger, then 2, 3 then a small dildo and increase in size gently so she gets stretched out a little at a time. Make sure you have plenty of lube and then go slowly promise her that as soon as she thinks its too much you'll stop- and keep that promise because anal sex requires her complete trust in you. Evenrually she should be able to take it all. Make it enjoyable for her by giving her a reach around, maybe with a small but powerful vibrator. It feels great when she comes while you are fucking her up the ass and she will bed thinking about something other fear of pain. Push for multiple orgasms from her while your slowly fucking her ass

  • You need to figure out how to make it fun for her.

    Starting with toys that she is using, not you is a good way to do it.

    This is because a horny young man has the patience of a ferett on cuppachino!

    She needs to learn how to open up and relax, and it will feel so good for her, that she will be wondering why you stopped! 🤣

    Oh and FFS, use plenty of lube.

  • It doesn't only hurt once, and you should be honest about it and be gentle. And it'll hurt a hell of a lot more if you don't have enough lube (no, spit is not enough), you don't get her ready first, don't just stick it in there. And of course, none of this matters if she's not ready and comfortable. If she keeps making excuses, it's because she doesn't want to do it yet, wait until she does

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    • @sk2020 Have you tried butt sex?

    • No, but I know enough about it plus basic understanding of how an ass works to know how this'll go down

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  • To be honest I have to admit I never did also my girlfriend neither like too.

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  • She is definitely scared. Better to go slowly, that instead of telling that you want to have anal sex, sweetly massage her ass, at the time of kissing make sure that she is wet, dip your finger in her juice and rub on her ass hole repeatedly. Next time repeat it but after some oil is poured on her ass hole. It will make hole bit soft, and then insert finger in it. When hole is soften, apply oil on your cock and slowly penetrate.

  • I wouldn't do it at all. If she does not want anal then maybe you should find a girl that's want to do it.

  • Why the fuck, (pun intended), would you want to stick your cock in her ass when there is a perfect pussy right next to it?

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