How To Teach Your Girl To Give the Best BJ of Your Life

I had a friend who actually came up with the idea in his own life at least to teach his girlfriend everything he liked instead of complaining that she was great but wasn't that good in bed. the way he saw it, every girl had something wrong and at least with this it was just a matter of instruction given in a way that doesn't cause her to feel even more insecure. So, as I'm someone who loves getting blowjobs but is kind of picky. This is what I have to say on it based on my own observations from the ones i've gotten as well as simply asking girls who are great what there "process is"...

How To Teach Your Girl To Give the Best BJ of Your Life

NO TEETH

Yes, a toothless girl could give an amazing blowjob except our dick would be like no no no at the sight of a woman with no teeth. But seriously, the teeth never need to touch the D. I know brushing your teeth up against or even lightly biting a girl's body can feel good to her but generally the genital area is no place for those things.

MAKE IT WET

How To Teach Your Girl To Give the Best BJ of Your Life

I'm sure every girl has some guy was a dick and laughed at how much drool she got on his dick during the BJ but while i personally don't like when a girl "spits" on it from a psychological perspective (it just feels too profesional or like I don't know ghetto maybe?) one thing i learned from asking girls is that they consciously make sure it stays dripping wet.

EYE CONTACT

Having her look up into your eyes while she does it can be really sexy but personally for me i don't like it unless the girl has exceptionally beautiful eyes. I know that makes me sound like a dick but its just i have a great imagination that often trumps the real thing. girls say i'm weird for not liking that though so if you don't you may want to try it

How To Teach Your Girl To Give the Best BJ of Your Life

TALK NASTY

This I do like. You can pretty much say anything to a girl while she's sucking your dick and get away with it as long as its not crazy. Call her your slut or tell her how much she likes it or how she's giving you better head than she ever gave her ex if you're freakishly competitive. The point is that a BJ doesn't have the kinetic action of intercourse to keep it exciting so for both of you it will be a benefit to include some dirty talk

IF ITS BEFORE SEX ITS ABOUT AROUSAL

How To Teach Your Girl To Give the Best BJ of Your Life

It's teasing the D which is different. Lots of different types of sucking...whether the basic or under the ridge of the head or the head itself etc. its priming for the fact that you're also fantasing about having sex with her soon. Counter intuittively here is where more instruction is needed since its all about stimulating for arousal rather than orgasm. Just tell her what you want her to do next almost like a game of "bop it" lol

IF ITS AFTER SEX THEN ITS ABOUT CUMMING

So eventually she'll have to stick with the basic move. orgasming from BJs unless you're inexperienced and maybe even then is just a long process so she will need to switch between her hand and her mouth. i'm sadly one of those guys who thinks its a little gross to have a girl kiss you right after she just had her mouth on your dick (it feels all warm) so i just push her head on my neck or chest or something. Again, its infintly easier to tell a girl what you like then the reverse since in my experience it doesn't hurt their ego like it hurts ours.

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THE LEGEND OF THE DEEP THROAT

How To Teach Your Girl To Give the Best BJ of Your Life

This is kind of hardcore but girls who can deep throat...I mean actually deep throat the point of you being able to face **** her are legendary. i met one girl who told me she and her boyfriend would use sore throat spray to practice (of course it would make his dick numb as well as the back of her throat.) but, i enjoyed the benefits of being able to put the whole thing in and out of her mouth (though have the time i thought i was going to choke her to death with it :/) This is obviously not something you should push her to do but if she wants to i suggest just trying a little bit more of it at a time and of course expect the possibility of a surprise vomit especially if she has particularly bad gag reflexes!

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  • As long as she's quiet, it's the best bj ever.

    • lol you don't like when she makes noises as if your dick is the best thing she's ever felt in her mouth?

    • men's two favorite things are oral and silence, thats why they usually go hand in hand

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  • my boyfriend doesn't like when i stare at him he feels odd, i have no gag reflex so he likes to face fuck me, he likes when i'm 69 and i put my mouth around the tip and jack him off while massage his balls, he also likes when i put them in my mouth and jack him off. and he likes a lot of spit

  • That's a good idea from your friend. As a general rule of thumb, during sex, eye contact and dirty talk make everything better.

  • Agreed!

  • My boyfriend pretty much taught me how to give a good blowjob. I had honestly never had complaints before.. Both guys said I was amazing at it (but they were quite a bit smaller lol).

    My boyfriend likes a lottttt of drooling lol. Like I'm literally uncontrollably drooling everywhere half of the time and can feel it dripping down my chin but he likes it a lot so who cares.

    Don't do the eye contact because it just makes me feel a bit weird... But he likes to hold my hair back and watch. I usually keep my eyes closed and sometimes give him the odd glance.

    I have a terrible gag reflex and I pretty much practiced deep throat for a while because I know how much he likes it. He can face fuck me now but I still gag every so often especially when he gets a little carried away.

    The one thing I still have trouble with is the teeth. I obviously don't do it deliberately but apparently (according to my dentist) I have a small mouth and he has an above average dick lol. Not really sure what I can do about it.

    • I'm curious is it sexier for you to suck on a bigger one like in the sense that bigger looks sexier or no difference?

    • No difference really. Except it being harder if anything lol. Like I've never struggled with my teeth catching and stuff before. But I've never enjoyed giving blow jobs before either. It's so fun with him because he likes it all messy and moans a little. When I first saw it I was like "damn he's quite a lot bigger" and I was actually a little worried about it. I like to feed his ego about it a bit too haha even arguing with him over whether it's average or above average. I keep saying I'm gonna get a tape measure out one day and prove to him it's bigger than he thinks.

  • Good take!

  • I've actually been told a give a good blowjob. Admittedly I've only given it to two guys. But I've been told for a virgin I'm good.
    I'd never use teeth. I don't want to hurt the guy. And I love making eye contact. It's literally the best ever. Seeing you guys in pleasure is so so hot.
    Also I love having them dirty talk to me. It's true. During sex you can call me anything and I won't care. Being called a bitch might lean more to the line of don't do that, but pretty much anything else is fine.

    • you have a bright sexual future ahead of you kid ha

    • Hahaha is that good?

    • yes! guys need to get their game up so tehy're ready to be The One when you're ready

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