I had a friend who actually came up with the idea in his own life at least to teach his girlfriend everything he liked instead of complaining that she was great but wasn't that good in bed. the way he saw it, every girl had something wrong and at least with this it was just a matter of instruction given in a way that doesn't cause her to feel even more insecure. So, as I'm someone who loves getting blowjobs but is kind of picky. This is what I have to say on it based on my own observations from the ones i've gotten as well as simply asking girls who are great what there "process is"...

NO TEETH
Yes, a toothless girl could give an amazing blowjob except our dick would be like no no no at the sight of a woman with no teeth. But seriously, the teeth never need to touch the D. I know brushing your teeth up against or even lightly biting a girl's body can feel good to her but generally the genital area is no place for those things.
MAKE IT WET

I'm sure every girl has some guy was a dick and laughed at how much drool she got on his dick during the BJ but while i personally don't like when a girl "spits" on it from a psychological perspective (it just feels too profesional or like I don't know ghetto maybe?) one thing i learned from asking girls is that they consciously make sure it stays dripping wet.
EYE CONTACT
Having her look up into your eyes while she does it can be really sexy but personally for me i don't like it unless the girl has exceptionally beautiful eyes. I know that makes me sound like a dick but its just i have a great imagination that often trumps the real thing. girls say i'm weird for not liking that though so if you don't you may want to try it

TALK NASTY
This I do like. You can pretty much say anything to a girl while she's sucking your dick and get away with it as long as its not crazy. Call her your slut or tell her how much she likes it or how she's giving you better head than she ever gave her ex if you're freakishly competitive. The point is that a BJ doesn't have the kinetic action of intercourse to keep it exciting so for both of you it will be a benefit to include some dirty talk
IF ITS BEFORE SEX ITS ABOUT AROUSAL

It's teasing the D which is different. Lots of different types of sucking...whether the basic or under the ridge of the head or the head itself etc. its priming for the fact that you're also fantasing about having sex with her soon. Counter intuittively here is where more instruction is needed since its all about stimulating for arousal rather than orgasm. Just tell her what you want her to do next almost like a game of "bop it" lol
IF ITS AFTER SEX THEN ITS ABOUT CUMMING
So eventually she'll have to stick with the basic move. orgasming from BJs unless you're inexperienced and maybe even then is just a long process so she will need to switch between her hand and her mouth. i'm sadly one of those guys who thinks its a little gross to have a girl kiss you right after she just had her mouth on your dick (it feels all warm) so i just push her head on my neck or chest or something. Again, its infintly easier to tell a girl what you like then the reverse since in my experience it doesn't hurt their ego like it hurts ours.
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THE LEGEND OF THE DEEP THROAT

This is kind of hardcore but girls who can deep throat...I mean actually deep throat the point of you being able to face **** her are legendary. i met one girl who told me she and her boyfriend would use sore throat spray to practice (of course it would make his dick numb as well as the back of her throat.) but, i enjoyed the benefits of being able to put the whole thing in and out of her mouth (though have the time i thought i was going to choke her to death with it :/) This is obviously not something you should push her to do but if she wants to i suggest just trying a little bit more of it at a time and of course expect the possibility of a surprise vomit especially if she has particularly bad gag reflexes!
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