How to tell a boyfriend about my rape fantasy with being weird?

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  • First seduce/roleplay in ways to build up to the rape play. Before you tell him. Take a walk with him on a wooded trail, like a camp park trail dressed in a short skirt loose breezy skirt.. Even its a cold winter day, you in shorter winter plaid skirt in leg warmers. No panties. On the trail stop, and tell him you want to play a game. Tell him he must follow behind you by 100 feet for at least 15 minutes. Tell him he can not say one word to you. As he follows you. Tell him though after 15 minutes is up you want him fuck you from behind like the animals in the woods. Just insist and make him. As you walk ahead carefully not so obviously keep pulling your skirt higher within half that time until your naked ass is completely showing. Pretty obviously at that point you're walking naked below the waist. All he'll be thinking to the build up to all this is how kinky /taboo this is. Like what got into you,,,, who is this girl.. Strange to him. Strange thus also stranger. He has no idea the cues you're sending to him ,, thinking that you just want to be fucked in the open. He might think its just exhibitionist type behavior because others may be around. Do this a couple times and you've just opened up the door for your perfect play rape session. Believe me, he's already been fantasizing who is this crazy sexy Strange girl suddenly that he's never known before. I'll guarantee the build up sessions he's already been fucking you like a strange woman he never met. And I bet his subsequent fucking got harder more forceful. Even saying very dirty things about you. Adding to it by saying oh my gosh it's like you're being fucked by a stranger. Fuck me harder, force it in me baby. Through all this, you've carefully broached the subject of your desire. Rape play. And how real you want it played out. Right out in the open on a trail. In the bedroom is too staged. I've made it quite real for some men and likewise. Then you can expand on this in many ways. If he won't, then find a strange man you're attracted to work it out to satisfy your taboo desires.

    • Yep done similar, it needs a story plot to build it in to adventurous role play.

    • @ChrisMaster69 yes exactly. Its like the perfect storm building and building to the point you just can't avoid it. I've crafted this very scenario myself over the course of a twentyfour hour period or less or a couple days puting myself out there to strangers. In the same way my suggested story told. Eventually making it quite obvious to the men following me, but never consenting nor denying. Technically it could have been considered rape.. pretending to be afraid but yet enjoying it thoroughly.

    • It’s always fun working out decent role play and aligns you both (or in some cases 3 of you) to what needs to be included (or excluded) for excitement and enjoyment. Imagination is a great thing.

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  • Rape fantasies aren't that weird (unless I'm reading it wrong). Two of my well educated, long-term partners, both dominant (very dominant!) women outside the bedroom, confided that they had rape fantasies themselves. But only on some days, guess it had something to do with their hormonal surge.
    For my part, I wasn't judgmental or condescending. I'd love to fulfil this for them...
    Anyway, playing mock-rape makes me feel dominant and turns me on. (Just as role-play, wouldn't do it in real life!) At the same time, I also enjoy being dominated by a woman, with her taking full control of sex, and me being a helpless subject! Don't ask me how these two seemingly contrary strands go together.
    Sex is far more illogical than it seems!

  • Yeah this is an interesting question. I like some of the ideas giving in the comments! But really I think it comes down to how protective he is. I know I would flip on a dime if I had a girlfriend who told me she had a rape fantasy. But at the same time I have found the rape scenario entertaining in my own fantasies. So I mean yeah I guess build it up.
    Maybe some time after some rough sex ask him if he was ever just wanted to totally have his way with no reserves for who he was fucking. Or something like that...
    then maybe you u can build up from there.

    • Thanks for the MHO!!

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  • Is your fantasy an actual criminal rape fantasy, or is it a fantasy about a strong, dominant man who presses himself on you and you excitedly allow it to happen?

  • You need to sit down and talk about it, explain what turns you on, try to cover details.

    Find out about him as well.

    Then just build up a story and introduce it slowly.

    Make sure you both know limits and that it does not necessarily mean rough sex.

    It also depends on what your rape fantasy is, simply the being vulnerable and forced or is it deeper.

  • Write it down. Read it. Edit it. Rewrite it. You know..

  • You can start the topic about movies like 50 shades of grey or 365 dni. And be positive about these movies I guess lol. Ask him about his opinion and just go on forth from there.

  • I assume you meant to say "without being weird." Answer: You can't do this without it being very weird. Rape fantasies are seriously messed up.

  • Make it part of a convo where each of you shares their fantasies (his may be weird, too).

  • Letting him know you want to try some fantasies and ask him what he fantasizes about trying. Always have a safe word

  • Just when you are sexting say it he will understand because fantasies are always weird

  • You can't. It's gonna be weird. Period.

    I don't think it's wrong to have a rape fantasy, and I don't think it's wrong to tell your S. O. But you have to have tact, and you have to "read the temperature in the room." You'd be better off waiting until you're really close and comfortable with one another before you spring something like that.

  • Almost all girls have rape fantasies.

  • Pretty normal

  • Start by asking him if he has any fantasy, after that lead in with yours.

  • ask him if he has any sex fantasies? rape like fantasy? explore the possibilities

  • That sounds really weird

  • Start with asking him to do tell you more then work up from there

  • Just talk to him about it. It's not going to come as a surprise to him.

  • It is ok when it just comes up sometime