How to tell if he's a dom?

Is there a way to know if a man is into bdsm or likes to dominate without asking directly?
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  • If it's important to you, you will want to know before you've spent months dating. Start by asking about the mildest kinks and see how he reacts. If you are into being spanked, you could ask him about that. I mentioned this to my wife after a couple of dates when it looked like we would be in bed soon.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Short of spying on him, you probably can't. But he may be willing to try it, even if he has no experience.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe watch together an erotic movie with this topic and see if he gives any hint.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yep, if he shows respect.

    As would you trust anyone that did not show respect.

  • Act submissive and see what he does i guess

  • Lay on the bed with a pile of ropes next to you.
    If he is he will get the hint.

  • Just get on all fours and bark like a dog. Then you'll know whether or not he is.

  • There is

    • How then

  • ask his fantasies and u would know what he likes.. or while getting banged u can realise how he is fucking u

    • Yes it would be easy if we slept together but we didn't yet

    • u would soon.. else sext with him

  • by checking his porn history at phone/pc

  • Try to pick up the check.

  • He wants you to be a submissive little girl.