How to tell if she is virgin or not?

I was wondering if there is any way that i can tell if she was a virgin or not like a trait in her personality or something i dunno maybe in her face or behavior? I would like to hear from all kind of people virgin, non-virgin, half-virgin Don't tell me to ask her or pull down her pants. Thanks~
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  • There's no definitive way to know. Some women bleed their first time others do not because the hymen can be stretch in many non sexual ways and many sexual ways that don't involve penetration.

    I was a late in life virgin didn't lose it until around 28. Before that at 26 I had a guy I would hook up with and everytime he fingered me I would bleed. Until he finally stretched my hymen enough (popped my cherry as they say). I bleed more that time then any time before. Thats all before having vaginal sex. So when I finally did no blood.

    Also for me penetration even with one finger was usually uncomfortable and most time painful at least the first few times. I was less open about my sexuality because I was just learning my body ( what I liked what I didn't like). But I agree with eveyone here ask her. At her age I doubt she'd lie about being a virgin. If anything she'd say she had more experience than she does so you dont think that she is immature or a prude.

    • Thanks a lot this is very informative!

    • You're welcome ☺

    • I've heard that "popping the cherry" is actually false, because nothing "pops" whenever a girl loses her virginity. It just stretches out the hymen and yeah some girls bleed, but some don't. Also I heard that it goes back to normal position if the girl doesn't have sex for a while after losing it. I don't know that's just what I heard when I watched a youtube vid a while back, got bored and lost on youtube lol

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  • Meh.

    Though I would advise you to ask her at your own risk. But before you go ahead with that, I want to ask why do you care at all? Like seriously. Do you think she is also wondering about your virginity? Ever thought how can you prove you are a virgin? I don't think so.

    I am surprised that even in this day and age, perfectly sane men are concerned about such things. girl's virginity. Or for that matter, even a boy's. In some cases there is a thick hymen detectable inside a woman’s vagina. But then a lack of hymen is not really a sign of sexual experience.

    What's a half-virgin by the way?

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    • You can tell if a guy was virgin. Half virgin? Someone who has been given oral sex, but not full intercourse.

    • IKR? My hymen got separated when I was 9 years old, in a rough threesome with a Huffy bicycle and the pavement of California Ave. Kinky, huh.

    • @redeyemindtricks your fetishes are so weird that even aliens didn't know about.

  • You finger her with holy water.. duhhh! ! Everyone know's that. He she doesn't turn into a demon than she's pure😱
    Seriously you can't tell. There isn't a specific trait or anything to know. All virgin's are different. Some are outgoing, some introvert's, some eat cake, some sip lean. You never know! You could ask, but depending on her comfort level she could not answer, or lie or tell the truth.

    • If ** not he

    • You need to re-read my question again. don't just put comments randomly without thinking sigh..

    • Lol this guy. And did u read my comment while actually knowing how to read, let alone asking if there is a trait? I said you can't tell unless you ask period. Everyone is different. You can't tell from a face someone make's or their behavior... ok well some are a give away there actually. Shyness about certain conversation's, They feel uncomfortable about certain clothing even if it's a simple piece. or super sexual conversation's/joke's 24/7... but u have the wild type's of virgins too the one's who you can't tell are sexually active. So next time be a good boy and don't ask dumb shit and then get made at the people offering to help you***tripple sigh**👌👏 have a blessed day.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • There's no way to be sure even if you have sex with her. Not even mention it's impossible to know based on her personality or behavior. If this really matters so much you should talk with her. Of course you depend on her honesty about it. And she could lie out of fear to loose you if she's interested in you as well.

  • There is a way actually to see it in her face and it's been proven by the University of Harvard. You look into her eyes in a bright room. And in the reflection you'll see an unfathomable stupid fucking guy. True story

    • LOL <3

    • Oh yea right he go by the name mar47! Jesus! She is too short around 5ft yeah, if i looked in her eyes i will see the reflection of my dick you fucking cunt. tries to be original. *cries in corner*. #Jokes #that #social #media #won't #show #you

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  • There's absolutely no way to know except for asking. Virgins don't talk or act any different than non-virgins.

  • 1. What the hell?
    2. Why does it matter?
    3. What is a half-virgin?
    4. No. There is no way to tell. Not even if you pull down her pants.

    • hahaha why u so angry ;P

    • 1. Yep 2. for marriage purposes 3. Someone who has been given oral sex, but not full intercourse. 4. you disappoint me lol

  • -.- in her face? come on man.
    no u can't tell unless u ask.

  • What's a half virgin?

    • Someone who has been given oral sex, but not full intercourse.

  • there's no way to know, even a doctor couldn't tell you

  • She's probably more anxious when it comes down to doing kinky stuff.

  • I'm a virgin and I'm super shy and awkward. More often than not they'll be less outgoing and assertive. Besides, many non-virgins are usually flashy and like to advertise their sexuality in some way.

  • Easy. She's not. Ever. That ship done sailed in HS at the latest

  • No there is no way you can know. Not even by pulling down her pants.

    • why not

    • What do you mean why? You just can't look at a girl and know if she's a virgin or not. It's not possible.

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  • You're not gonna like my answer...

    Ask her, if it's so important, and if it's appropriate to do so (ie, you're dating). If it's not appropriate, then it's not important and you don't need to know!

    • I wanna know before things develop..

    • If it matters to you, then she deserves better, so don't date her.