How to tell my boyfriend I have a daddy kink?

[adaradarling]

I have known about the ddlg lifestyle for a long time and have even tried it before with a past partner. But my past "daddy" was much more experienced than i am. Me and my current partner have been together for over a year and he is always more dominant in bed. Spanking, light choking, punishment really turn him on. He also often says i've been a good girl or "be a good girl". But he always jokes about daddy kinks and says they're weird. I always try to leave subtle hints of my kink but he always makes a weird face. I'm really nervous about telling him i have a daddy kink and i don't know if i even should. Please help!

[AustinMan]

I suggest this as one potential approach: tell him you want him to be your Daddy not because you have father issues but because it's a kink of yours and furthermore that you don't want him to be your father, or your Daddy. That you want him to be you BAAAAAD DADDY!!

[hefriend]

honestly I'd just be real about it. I think daddy kinks throw people off cause "daddy" sounds like "dad" to most people. so just explain that it seems like a more affectionate nickname than "master" or "sir" or anything else you could call him. but I don't know.

[Erikitty]

Don't tell him. I've had guys run when I tel them when they have those kinds of reactions. My advise is to go on like fetlife or something so you can meet someone that's compatible to ur kinks..

[Katherine3110hun]

Just be honest and tell him.

[Leavesbound]

Just dress up in a school girl uniform, put your hair in pigtails and go to him and say "Daddy, I've been VERY naughty!"

[xKirito]

I would want to know all of my girls kinks so I could please you in every way and fulfill every desire and fantasy.

[DogEatsCat1973]

He seems to be on the verge of it already tell him he just needs to wake up to that fact that he is already a dom figure and seems to want you to be his good girl or sub little!

[LaughingStick]

Daddy kinks are insanely hot. Kinda wish more girls gave it a shot.

[Anonymous]

talk to him

[Anonymous]

I think he's into it already he just is interpreting the word daddy as an incest kink which it generally isn't.

If using that word is important to you try explaining what it means to you.