How to tell the difference between a man who's just bad at conversation but loves sex with you, and a man only looking to use for just sex?

Guys if you're interested in a girl, do you ask her many questions? And if so, what sort? Or do you avoid it and wait for her to mention things? If so why?
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  • Before i proceed, the big question is, what do you want from that relationship?

    1) everything but sex?
    From the Details, it will surely fail. Hence cut it short.

    2) yes, a lot of sex, but with some outaide the bedroom activities.
    Then no problem at all. Just let him know that you also want a lot of sex. Then arrange every date outside the bedroom first. And engage in activities you like before concluding in sex.

    3) little sex, more bonding, more connections.
    Have "the talk" in a nice bistro you both like.

    Tell him what you want. Yes, use the word "I" and get his attention on your needs. Yes, drill into him much as sex is all important to him, those are "sex" to you.

    Then listen carefully to his replies.

    Come to a "win-win" business-like agreement. This is known as "communication".

    To conclude, romance/love to you = sex to him (most guys). Hence learn to empathize. Us guys like a girl who is willing to have sex to gain our love (not material things). Hope your guy can agree to it.

    • Of course #2

    • That should be easy. Much easier than wanting #3. Ask him out to talk. Guys like more sex with lesser "other things". State your boundaries, state your needs. He should easily accept with the "more sex" part of the deal. 😁

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  • When we are interested we will try and turn the convo to sex as much as possible

    • Interested in what, sex or more?

    • Interested in you, sex is what we think about and imagine with you, we can like you as a person, want to marry you etc but we always wanna talk about sex

    • Okay good to know. But don't guys that just want sex only do this too? As women we've always been told that if his conversation is surface level and about sex then its just sex only he wants. It's sad but it's true.

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  • You can't.
    Whitch one will you think i'm?