How to tell your girlfriend that you want to have sex with her?

How to tell your girlfriend that you want to have sex with her ?


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Most Helpful Guys

  • Learn the proper foreplay techniques on how to warm her up and get her into the mood for sex. Begging her or asking her directly with words is not effective and unlikely to work.

    It has to be more indirect, and usually starts with the kisses. So if you can makeout with her and kiss her properly you can slowly warm her up and get her ready for sex. Do it right and she will be in the right mood and can't resist desiring you, otherwise she'll be making excuses saying some other time, that she's too tired, or that you'd have to buy her some really expensive gift, etc., anything to ensure that sex does not even happen at all.

    • Cheers mate! Thank you for the mho!

  • One once told me to say:
    let's go someplace private where I can rub your feet and massage you where needed

    After getting her all worked up on a very fulfilling date, innuendos greasing the wheels and heavy petting, lots of humor, this has worked sometimes... "soooo... did you want sex or rape?" (meaning role playing)

Most Helpful Girls

  • You don't ask for sex with words.
    It's something that happens because of the moment.

    I don't know how far you have gone or about your culture or anything.
    But just let it flow.
    If you fx sit down in the bed or something, then you could kiss her, and then deepen it, slowly going to the next level.
    If she is willing and ready or turned on, she will follow and go on with it, if not, she will stop it.

    To me, there is nothing more unappealing than when you are asked for sex or something like that, just don't.

  • It better not to tell her directly that you wanna have sex, she might refuse. Try to kiss her and then keep going more further. If she is turned on she might not stop you from having.

  • What do you mean by this? If she's your girlfriend surely you can say honey, let's get it on now or tonight. What's the issue here?

    • the meaning of girlfriend is diffrent through out different cultures

    • Ok. I would say to her you are keen to cuddle and make love to her tonight and see how she responds. What does she say about sex? Or is the barrier you and your culture?

    • I don't have girlfriend Lol it's just question

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  • If she's your girlfriend already it's very simple. You say "hey, wanna have sex". One of the perks of being in a commited relationship is the remoance and dating isn't linked to sex. You should be at the point where you just ask and get an answer one way or the other.

  • i know from expirrence that if you say "hey baby wanna fuck" that is a big mistake. tyr to be subtle. not in words but actions. pur tour arm around her. kiss her neck hiss her legs put ypu hand on her legs and rub them or getckn the floor and start kissing her feet take off her shoes and massage those toes. kiss her stomach. i think she'll get the hint. tpu could also whip it out and show her how excited you are.

  • It's a very difficult question to answer., especially if she is a virgin. Just keep her in a good mood and hint indirectly about sex. if she is of a sexy nature , just hold her hands and take her in the bedroom. She will understand..

  • Just talk to her about and see if she's willing to take your relationship to the next level

  • Just tell me

    • why i must tell you :P hahahah

    • "how to tell your girlfriend... blabla" If I was your girlfriend, just tell me

    • why you should use if :P

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  • Just ask her. Don't be a one of the guys who always makes a lot of fuss or a big deal from a minor things. You don't ask, you don't get it, simple as that. She's your girlfriend after all so you should be feeling comfortable speaking about sex etc.

  • Get her in the mood. Know her sexuality triggers, it'll help.

  • Take down your pants and shake it at her. It's the national sign of mating amongst cochinos...

  • Write her a poem

  • come in the house with a trench coat and no clothes under, she will get the message

  • I'd just roofie her and have some fun 😉

    • Best advice yet, but who sells roofies? 🤔😝

    • What's a roofie? O_o...

    • @YellowCactus Hmmm... Nvm.

  • Stop being thirsty and using girls for sex.

  • She's your girlfriend, it should kind of be implied that you want to have sex with her.

  • romance her, make her feel like you care about more than just her looks