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How to tell your girlfriend u wanna lick her pussy?

Me n my girlfriend had never had sex before and we haven’t talked about it. How can I tell her I want to be sexual with her for the first time without it becoming weird?
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  • Just diving in might make her uncomfortable so don't do that if you've never had sex! I like the idea of casually putting your head on her lap during a movie or cuddling or something and nuzzle into her and see how she reacts. If it's a good reaction maybe slowly try other things similar like subtly grinding her with your thigh.

    Alternatively talking about things takes you further than just trying and hoping for the best. If you're clear on what she wants and where she's at right now, then you can make your move.

    • Thankyou I like your advice :)

    • Hang on, if you've never spoken about sex then definitely talk about it first! Even if it's just finding out what she would like to try in the future and what she likes for now. It's more useful than knowing when she's ready in my opinion

    • Ok Thankyou I’ll see where this advice takes ne

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not something you ask about. I'll be direct.
    If you have gotten to the open-blouse/bra undone stage and are kissing/sucking there, you simply kiss your way down to her waistband and watch for her body language. If she does nothing or maybe bucks a little, you have implied consent. This is difficult if she is wearing jeans, yoga's, etc. But if she's wearing a skirt (implied consent in itself) you raise it and wait for a reaction. If you get none, you have a green light. Slide the center panel of her briefs aside and have at it.

  • Find the right moment and go for it. Deciding things like this beforehand kinda ruins the fun.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Do u guys make out?

    • Yeah

    • Why not ask if u can taste her? If ur already kinda all up on eachother?

    • Ok I just do t wanna ruin it yknow

  • COMMUNICATION DUUUUDE

  • Action speaks louder than words.

  • Don't ask, just dive in. If she's not ready or in the mood, she will let you know.

    • Isn’t that bad tho

    • No I don't. Being spontaneous and going for it is much more romantic than asking.

  • start making out with her and work your way down her body.

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