As a guy who enjoys it when my lady reaches for me manhood of her own volition, I would suggest taking the gentle but firm approach. Most girls tend to treat a mans shaft like it's a delicate piece of equipment they might break. Strangely enough, while our package tends to be somewhat sensitive if bumped, our John Thompson is a little more durable. You might try starting off a little coy by unzipping him slowly, then gently reaching in and pulling it out before touching it playfully and then starting to grip him more firmly as you twist your hands up and down. Don't be afraid of using a little pressure when you stroke him. Guys like to know they're wanted just like ladies do. Hope that was helpful and good luck!
Thank you so much for your helpful advice! I don't understand exactly though... how do I pull it out if he is wearing undies? And where should I be looking when I do it, or should I be kissing him or something?
You can pull his boxers/boxer briefs down far enough for it to come out the top- easy as pie. I know I love it when she looks at it as she pulls it out, then back up at me as she starts to stroke it. Kissing as your start to rub him will be a big plus, I'm sure.
Wouldn't that be embarrassing for him at all?
Gently rub him while he is clothed until you know he is excited. Unzip his pants and stroke again. Then reach in his underwear pull it out and stroke it up and down. He may help you get it out. Take your time and be gentle at first and then make your grip a little more firm as time goes by.
In his underwear? What if the undies are tight? Yeah he would have to help me out ay lol. How exactly do i give a hand job.. I've heard your hand needs to be wet and i don't know exactly if you are suppose to slide up and down the shaft or suppose to keep it in one spot or what?
It doesn't need to be wet. You don't want friction or chaffing. The skin will 'give' when you move up and down. Don't slide across the skin, hold the same skin and slide up and down. He'll let you know you are doing it right.
Most helpful advice I have ever had about the topic thank you so much. I thought it was sliding lol. And sorry, could you be more clear what you mean by 'give'? And which part is best to grab?
don't just grab it like crazy NO!.. just caress it gently while you're sitting next to him
His clothes where his crotch would be or his actual crotch?
starting with his clothes on is a good way to feel more comfortable with it
Okay thank you. Also, I need help with knowing when is a suitable time for this to happen...
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!work from up to down. kissing lips, lick his nipple.. touch his inner thigh, touch his ball, additional flavored lube is fun too, applying it on the penis and gently pull-massage it before giving him a satisfying blowjob.. don't go too fast
Grab the shaft... hold it, stroke it... up and down... let the rest come naturally. In fact, if he's a virgin, my guess is you will probably get him off with just a simple hand job (stroke his shaft up and down). Use your other hand to hold his balls while you do it and he'll go crazy. At that age - sometimes just putting a condom on was enough to almost make me cum. lol
He's 17 haha and he doesn't even masturbate (I asked him once)
Pull your shirt down/off... slide a hand around his shaft, use other hand to hold his balls. Grasp his shaft firmly and start up and down. I give him about 1 min 45 seconds... Less if you are kissing him and/or his neck.
If you explain to him just how excited you are to touch him, he'll probably cum, in his pants
a lot.
The joys of being a virgin :)
When you suck it, don't be afraid to use your teeth.
Someone is gonna have hell of a night :')
don't use your teeth at all, dudes a troll
That's common sense not to use teeth, thanks for clarifying chidude :)
Clothed or unclothed?
Just do it
Nike
just tell him you want to touch it, he will open up and let you, just make sure you share the favor and tell him he can touch yours
If there is even a remote chance that you are going to be touching down there it is going to be hard as a rock.
Grab it.
You mean I have to wait until he is hard for me before I touch it? What if he is more shy about that sort of thing?
If you're both virgins then trust me, it can probably cut diamonds any time you get close to it.
Believe me, the first time a girl touches a guys penis, he is going to be so erect it might be painful. And that is a good thing, fyi.
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