Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
This is a very general myTake and doesn't apply to everyone but I feel confident it will apply to the vast majority of men out there.
There are four (and possibly five) things every man wants in a lover:
1) He wants her to be exceptionally eager like she wants to be there and for him to have his way with her. You can demonstrate this verbally and by not being able to keep your hand off of him. Smiling and laughter can also be used. I personally love it when she can't wait to get her hands and her mouth on me.
2) He wants her to be very enthusiastic. When he leads, he needs to know that she heartily wants what he's about to do. When she's down on me, I love it if she acts like it's the best sausage she's ever seen. Enthusiasm makes up for a world of skill so when in doubt be extra enthusiastic with whatever you're doing.
3) He wants her to ardently adventurous. The fewer limits and boundaries you throw up, the better. If you want to try something, talk to him before the sex starts and see what he thinks. If it's something you know he's gonna love, just do it. I personally love it when she surprises me, be it with a new TLN (Trashy Little Nothing) or some new trick she's discovered.
4) John Gray said in his book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus that the most important thing in the world to a man is to be appreciated and he's right. There's nothing we like better. It's like a drug. So when he's doing his thing, give him verbal and nonverbal feedback when it's good. Not only does it make him feel better about what he's doing but he'll likely keep doing it or do it again. I also especially love it when she lets me know she's cumming. That's asking a lot because she's focused on her orgasm.
5) Finally, it was so very truly said that a man absolutely cannot tell a woman she's beautiful too many times or too often. The same is true of telling a man he's big or too big. But only if it can be true. If he's small he knows it and is already probably struggling a bit with it.
What Girls & Guys Said
16 11How come we have to do all this stuff... can't we just sit there? and like, not do all that stuff? I don't want to do any of that stuff...
Nah you don't have to do it. But don't complain when your man says your boring and unloving and leaves you.
What do you want to do? I'm genuinely curious.
Well then can't guys just sit there as well? And like... Not do any stuff that pleasures you? he doesn't want to get intimate with someone as ignorant as you...
@QooLipBite, she's not ignorant. She's very, very manipulative and she must be stunning for it to work so well for her over time. If a woman "speaks" to us with sufficient gravitas, the bighead is pretty much completely short circuited by the little one.
I just don't want to do that much. that's a lot... :/
Anon strikes again.
How is it a lot? In brief it means enjoy what you're doing, mix it up a bit and let him know you think he's attractive. If you're finding that too much hard work you're with the wrong bloke.
I have to disagree on this take from a longterm stance.
Men are kinda like 4 year olds in a way. You gotta give them a piece of a cookie now and let them know that if you're good they can get more later. So while this advice is great for say if you're in an established relationship and have been with your guy for 2 years now this is terrible advice for anyone looking to start up a serious relationship in the preliminarily stage.
In the beginning of a new relationship, men are already turned on. They see you they want you. Simple as that. As a woman you have to do nothing but give out rations and decide how much he's gonna get in exchange for positive behaviors.
but yes in a stable and secure relationship this is very good advice. I'd just like to say to girls that aren't in a reliable relationship and are in a more vulnerable stage (the first 3 months of a relationship especially) this is grade A advice of how to get used, walked on, and screwed over
Someone's been hurt
There's just a lot of guys that will take advantage of someone who acts super nice and gives them everything they want in the beginning. How many guys do you know that are like "oh yeah man she made me breakfast in the morning and everything" and then they leave her and get with someone who's controlling instead? So through observation I've developed a technique that works for me. During the first 3-6 months of any relationship you treat a guy like a pet or a child. You train him. Reward good behavior only and punish him when he's bad and this has worked out so well for me. Like I said after you're in a safe and secure and established relationship it's fine to be nice to your guy all the time make sandwiches for him, be enthusiastic and eager to be with him and show that you appreciate him, but in the beginning that is a huge mistake. As a woman I've learned to making guys work for your encouragement pays off greatly. He'll appreciate your niceness so much more
The same thing works with girls, ironically. Of course when you try to give only a piece of cookie in exchange for good behavior, they sometimes get pushy and will start to find all kinds of ways to manipulate you into giving them the whole jar.
This is very true. Sadly the way our society is set up encourages greed and manipulation on both the male and female spectrum, but hey you gotta do what you gotta do to protect yourself.
A very interesting comment. I've never dated anyone that uses sex as almost a weapon for controlling his behavior. Does this ever backfire?
Wow.. unless your someone just wanting to be a cunt and cause people to complain about this, plan on being very lonely. I was married for 25 years. I know the "long term". If you treat a man that disrespectfully he is going to tell you to go fuck yourself. he will be able to find plenty of women that will treat him properly.
While I can't concur with the profanity (I'm an old school gentleman), I can most positively concur with his message. I was married for 27 years the first time and I encountered one woman in the search for my second wife who used these tactics. I told her about my kinks and she was on board. When she pulled that stuff, she got soundly spanked. She stopped but it was too late.
Anon strikes again.
I'm literally talking about the first 3-6 months in a relationship here. If you go back and READ MY POST I said that your take is excellent advice for a 2+ year relationship that is established and on good ground, but if you don't know the person don't do this crap. You will get burned. Take my advice or leave it ladies, but don't give a man everything in the first 3 months you'll regret it because chances are they don't deserve it. Make them earn it THEN treat him like a king is all I'm saying
by "long term" I meant if you want your relationship to MAKE IT to the long term stage. Say what you want, but most men can't handle being treated like they're everything at the start of a relationship. They love a challenge. If you don't give a man a challenge in the beginning he'll get bored and leave you with the quickness. I've seen this a lot with girls that are perfect girlfriends, but can't hang on to a guy for longer than 2-3 months because they give the guy everything and the guy has nothing to work for and no reason to better himself. Reward good behavior only. Punish bad behavior. Then when the person shows that they are worthy of love and care then you can give it to them unconditionally
If this is your take on a relationship I'm guessing you've never made it to long term. Treat a guy like that and they're not going to stick around. If a guy treated you like that you'd say he was mistreating you and ditch him. Men are people not animals and don't need "training". You're entitled to your opinion but please note there are people disagreeing with you who have been in relationships that lasted longer than you've been alive. They may know what they're talking about.
@Wizbit Oh my!! That's a really, really good one. While she has a point, she is so very manipulative sounding that any smart guy who treats her like a princess, as is my practice including for 27 years in my first marriage (I was still opening her car door the day I told her I'd moved out). If she can't reciprocate, she's not for me. One thing I did not say is that if we make an emotional connection, a prerequisite for sex in my book, we sit down and have a nice long conversation that's calm, direct, and matter of fact about our relationship, our roles, our kinks and our expectations. I have found that works amazingly well. It took 25 years of not all that happy marriage to finally get to marriage counseling and learn that I can just ask a woman for what I want and she'll almost always do anything to give it to me, especially if I make sure she gets what she needs and most of what she wants in bed.
what are you going to do when you get past the sex to the real life situations and she becomes as vindictive as any woman?
I thought of that nickname for you, it's BitterBalls.
ROTFLMAO!!! He clearly has been badly burned.
This one has been majorly burned.
1,2 and 3 make sense for me but not 4 or 5. That sounds a bit insecure or maybe unobservant. I can tell when I'm appreciated or being taken for grated without being told. I don't need to be told I'm a good lover, I can tell if things are working or not. Not that I don't welcome instruction, instruction is always good.
What is the one thing that a man likes the most
That varies from man to man and situation to situation. For me, It's being appreciated as a lover.