No blood, nothing like that, and nothing to worry about! But when you choose to do it, be sure that it is with a guy that really cares, and really loves you!
I have been with two, and both took some time, but they were at different times, and different women, but in that one way, similar.
Most guys don't take the time, and make her feel comfortable, and just relax, as there is no timeline, or 'deadline'!!
I was a bit older than both, and I had some experience, not a lot, but I had a lot of female friends.
When the first finally confided, that she was a virgin, I had to get advice from my female friends! Never had that before!!
The best advice, was just date, and go along, and when she is ready, she will say she is. Sometimes, as I discovered, being "ready" takes some time, and some laughs, and just being comfortable, together, and not having any expectations.
It took several months, but who cares? I got to know both, in their own ways, at the different times, and eventually, there was just a moment, and then it was just right.1 0 0 0
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I really wanted it to be a pleasant experience for her. I made sure she was plenty wet. I was gentle but there was still a little blood. (She later said it stung like when you have a minor cut on any sensitive spot.) She was wincing with every stroke, so I stopped. I got her off orally and that was it. She was depressed for a few days afterwards because she always thought she would wait until her wedding night. When we did it again a few days later, there was still a little blood but a lot less pain. I think knowing what to expect and knowing she could fully trust me calmed her a lot.
As far as perceived tightness goes, it varies more by position and wetness than it does from one woman to the next. At least that’s my experience. She’s the same now as she was then, 32 years ago: delightfully tight.1 0 0 0
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(30)A couple were fine, they had been using toys for years.
0 0 0 0Sure, she was a little tight, probably from nerves too.
A little bit of blood from the hymen, nothing to be concerned about.
The best thing to do is to make it a special moment, which I tried to do.0 0 0 0Not good, really. Very tight, hard to rupture her hymen, some blood on the pillow under her butt.
0 0 0 0I never had sex with one.
0 1 0 0This level of confusion is astounding.
0 0 0 0It hasn't happened yet, but I think I would enjoy it.
0 0 0 0The first virgin I had was really tight and was a little hard to penetrate her but when I was finally in her it was incredible and there was no blood. The second virgin was tight also and she did bleed a little bit when I penetrate her. It seemed I hurt them at first but when I first insert myself in but after awhile they start to feel really good and wanted me to keep going harder and faster.
0 0 0 0Very tight. Yes, there was blood. Most women who are not even virgins are tight on me still. If I don’t use a condom, even when it’s wet, it still hurts initially going in.
0 0 0 0She wasn't too tight and I accidentally broke her hymen by fisting earlier that day. I intended to fist her, but not break her hymen.
0 0 0 0Very tight that feels like hurting a muscle. It loosens up after a few times. A little blood. No mega bleeds though. It always hurts them but some it was serious pain and some not so much. They all got off though but i put in some work and really know what i was doing to make them relax and stuff.
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