How was your first time like? Was it with a special person? Or regretted it?

How was your first time like? Was it with a special person? Or regretted it?
It was special!
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Drunken One night stand
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It just happened, horny af
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Regrets!
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If I could undo it, i would
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Mine was special. March 10, 2005. We both wanted it so bad. Once the door closed behind him, my clothes were off 🤣! No regrets! 💕
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  • My first time was very intense but also over very quickly 😂 No, I don't regret it. at the time she wanted it and i wanted it. There's nothing to regret

    • Yeah, that nostalgia when you were innocent and so damn excited. 🙈😅

    • 🤣 yea waited for the right time and person

    • Oh man, these memories 🙈 I was so insecure 😅

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  • My first was amazing. I loved her. She loved me. We were very sexually compatible. And most of the rest have paled in comparison. Ell oh ell!

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  • My girlfriend was 15 and I was 16 and it was, unlike with a lot of people, a great experience. We were lucky enough to have the time and privacy that we needed and it was great.

    We lived in a small town in Michigan. My gfd's parents lived on an inland lake and they would throw a huge party every Independence Day. A Bar-b-q. Softball and darts and chatting on the lake. People would go out on boats on the dock and water ski or you would go swimming. Inside they set up a small mini-casino with a roulette wheel. It was a big event.

    Then, after dark, people would take their boats out to the middle of the lake, tie them together and have dancing and watch the fireworks display. After the fireworks, more dancing and a bonfire onshore.

    As I say, it was a big affair. I had been to a few before my girlfriend and I started dating - my junior year, her sophomore year, in high school.

    Well, that year, we took a pontoon boat out - her parents owned one - just the two of us. We went to the middle of the lake and after the dancing and fireworks, we told everyone that we were going to stay out a bit and just star gaze.

    Well, it does not take a rocket scientist to figure out what happened next. One thing led to another and we had sex for the first time in our lives. Unprotected sex, I should add, as this was not planned and teenaged hormones tend not to think very much.

    It was amazing and for the next few days I was sure of three things. 1) I was a MAN!!! 2) I was totally in love. 3) My girlfriend was the girl I was going to marry, get a house with a white picket fence, have children and live the rest of my life with. I mean I wanted to be with her every second!!

    Then it hit me. "Hey, what if I got her pregnant." The hormones wore off, the brain kicked in. I started to try to imagine what it meant for my education and college. How would we tell our parents?

    Truth be told, if I am to be honest, there was a part of me that was okay with it. I kept thinking that I would be a good dad and I could make it work. For the most part though, I started to worry and every day I would ask my girlfriend, "Did you have IT, yet?"

    The "It" being her period. She got REALLY tired of my asking that question.

    However, nothing to worry about. She was not pregnant and we continued to date and have sex - albeit with condoms, except for one time a year later when we did have a serious pregnancy scare - until her freshman year, my sophomore year, in college.

    My memories of her are still fond. Just that going to different colleges hundreds of miles apart made us grow apart. You grow up and the teenaged hormones wear off. Suffice to add that I am now the besotted father - with my girlfriend (we don't want to be married) - of three little Munchkins and I am living happily ever after.

    Still, it is funny. It was great sex and I am still sort of surprised how, even as I was having a panic attack I was open to the idea of being a teen dad if that is what fate (and my teen hormones) had decided for me. I was scared, no doubt of it, but I was sure I was meant to do it.

    Overall, it was a great - if not unmixed - experience.

    • Wow what a great story! You can write! Love it 😍

    • Thanks so much for your kind comment. Have to say, though, it is easy to write about something like that experience. I am a dad now and very much in love with my girlfriend - the mother of my children - but the memories of that first time always stay with you.

    • Coz they were real and everything was special. Which makes it more memorable and unforgettable 💕

  • Oh gosh, I'd definitely take it back if I could!!! No questions.

    Both of us were virgins, inexperienced... don't get me wrong, it was nice but memorable? No.

    Plus nothing came of our relationship since we both denied any real interest in each other- we were basically just two outcasts that wanted to be in relationships, and since no one else wanted to date us, we sort of dated each other. But no real attraction on either side. So... yeah. It was okay, but we both deserved better. If anything, it was a good experience for us to say, "Yeah, we did it" and learned from it.

  • Young and horny af. First boyfriend wanted me all over him in public but refused to follow through behind closed doors. Once he broke up with me for not being more into PDA, I got my rocks off. Chatted up someone online, they came to meet me, and he fucked me good. Hindsight, super stupid, but got awesome results

  • No for me it's a conscious decision I don't mind showing my tits and if I'm going to have sex with with somebody it means that I like her I hate to sound like I have an ego but I mean I like myself and I don't really give myself up not unless I really like that person

  • Both Young Teens, First Loves, Very Special and Serious at One Time... xxoo

    • 🥰 that sounds so romantic

    • It was. Took me 7 years to Move on After I broke it off. I had Wanted to See if he Would Come back like in the movies...:((xx

    • 🥰 why’d you break it off if you don’t mind me asking

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  • My first time was with my roommate/new girlfriend at the time. I was extremely attracted to her and we had been making out and getting close for a while. It was just a very natural progression towards having sex. It was fun, I definitely learned a few things, and it was just the beginning of our crazy, passionate relationship.

  • I don't even remember ;-)

  • Almost. Luckily I didn’t do it wouldve regretted it.

  • First time was with my first love. Don't regret it, wouldn't change it or the person.

    Glad I waited for my first love instead of my first relationship.

  • It was special. I was holding out for someone who was special to me. I could have had one night stands (college days) but I avoided that.

  • My first time was not with a ‘special’ girl per se, but she was super, super hot and made my first time unforgettable. The only regret I have is that she was cheating on her guy with me (I just had sex with her that one time). Other than that, I have no regrets, and remember that night fondly. ☺️

  • Very awkward. 4/10.

    • How awkward

    • She had an ear-biting fetish that I didn't care for. She was very manipulative. I struggled to find a good angle and maintain it. Her thighs were really thick. I was out of shape, and couldn't do push-ups well. She liked to find angles that made it even harder for me to get situated properly. Her silky bed sheets were too slippery, and I couldn't support my feet against anything. I kept sliding around like a fish, and she seemed to get sick amusement out of watching me not be able to control anything. It ended finally with cowgirl position on the living room floor. She later shrugged off the whole thing like it wasn't that big a deal what had just happened. If I hadn't been so naive and sheltered up to that point, I would've realized the extent to which I was being used, and that I never really mattered to her. The warning signs I brushed off as flukes at the time, I now know how to put into perspective. Even now looking back the rare moment during reverse cowgirl on the bed where I felt like it was actually going to lead anywhere or to anything meaningful, or like I'd finally achieved something with her, feels like some bizarre pornographic memory of it happening to someone else. It doesn't even feel real to me nowadays that it happened to me. Even though we've physically never met, I am 90% certain that you would have treated me better, let's put it that way. Flaws aside, you have a conscience. That girl had none. And I found out later just how manipulative she was. I wasn't the only man she'd ever mistreated. Some had it far worse!

  • It was with my boyfriend when I was 16. The sex wasn't good because of inexperience and it was very quick but like I said inexperience. I was just ready to lose it and we were both horny so we did it. I don't look back at it as some holy super special moment or anything. I just wanted to lose my virginity and wanted to experience sex so I did.

  • I'm a late bloomer i wanted to lose it so bad I met a girl off tinder who was very horny, she came over we had two sips of wine and within two minutes we were fucking. Only after did we properly introduce ourselves.

    If I could change the person I would but I don't regret the fact I did it that day, I overcame a major stigma in my life

  • So forgettable that I did forget lol. Spent 3 days with her when I was 22 and wasn't memorable at all.

    • Once you lose it, it’s gone forever

  • WELL my first time was with my college roommate and we were just experimenting but I was a virgin on my wedding night and so was my husband. It wasn't the best but we were learning but it got LOTS better three nights later after we had show and tell the second night. Stars!

  • I was 15 and in love. It wasn't great but it was okay

  • It was great, well I was fucking nervous and it wasn't good but I never regretted it.
    It was not really with someone "special", we weren't in love or something but he was still the right person.
    I still trusted him and knew him for a longer time, it was a spontaneous and irrational decision and out of a big personal crisis lol but it was the right thing to do for me.
    I still remember his smile when he understood what I wanted and I always compare his smile to like a little kid waking up on a Christmas morning and seeing his gifts haha he was really sweet

  • love, and in love, loved it...

  • It happened so fast that I can’t honestly remember it that great. I remember 10 seconds of huge excitement then followed with orgasming immediately. It was with a person who I did have feelings for but it was one sided. I never had an issue with stamina ever again because devoted the rest of my life to never be a one minute man 🤣

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