How well do you think men you been with really know you?

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  • So because you say "feelings and needs" as part of that, I presume you mean not just short term or physical-only relationships.
    I'm not a difficult person to get to know. I'm not cagey. Although I was more reserved and held back a bunch, consciously, in my early 20s because guys at that age get spooked so easily and are such commitmentphobes, generally speaking. They often don't have both the emotional capacity at that age, and/or don't want to give up their 'freedom.' Often that's about them, not me/us girls.
    If someone wants to know me, they can. But I'll only open up a lot to those I think are special. There are many things that get revealed, as two people get to know each other, and often that process divides people and sends them off in different directions.
    There can also be many misinterpretations now in the digital world, so I feel closer to people I can spend time with, face to face, or on voice calls. Digital-only communication is enjoyable, but somewhat limiting.
    But I am authentically myself, for good and often for bad too, so if we both are motivated to know each other, it will be easy. I used to not be stoic, although now I can be, if I want to. (Well, easy except for distractions, trying to go through too much data in life. That's a legit issue nowadays, which can make it appear as though I/a person is less interested than they actually are. If you mean only bfs and lovers, then they will get to know me pretty well. I don't sleep with strangers.)

    How about you and in your own life? What prompted this q?

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  • My first ex was great at foreplay (fingering, making out, hickeys) but he made it clear that he was a selfish lover. Sex to him was just like breakfast. It started off his day and then you’d be lucky to see him again that day. He really only saw me as an experimental sex toy. He always made sure it felt good for him but never cared to discover what felt good for me. He didn't even know what a clit was so neither did i at the time 🤣🙈 my second ex was also good with foreplay... okay well not really lmao. His ass couldnt finger for shit and wouldn't listen to me so it only felt worse. He wasn't the best kisser either. He even fcked up titsucking and bit the shit out of my nipples. And he drowned in the pussy so he kept comin up for air. Like get tf back down there 😂 But he was at least good at phone sex and lovemaking. He made sex feel like something i wanted to do instead of something i was pressured to give into.

    • Well we all get older and wiser maybe. Some just feel gifted 😂

    • Neither of they ass was gifted. I mean with the first, we were both 15/16. With the second, he was 21

    • I don't even make a effort for a bit takes a while for a lady to get used

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  • 95% of them don't really know me at all

  • They know my body well