How will you dominate a girl who have high attitude?

So the question is that the girl have dominate personality outside the bed for others but the girl likes to get dominated tamed by her partner in the bed

The girl is mean and have a really high attitude and she is picky. also, now you want to dominate her then how will you do it?

Would you like to have sex with a girl like that?
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  • This requires a dominant who is also a "brat/bitch-tamer" - i. e., someone who is willing to deal with defiant submissives who want to be dominated into submission. I've dealt with a few of those, and it takes a lot of work and effort, so it's not for everyone.

    My first experience with this was with a friend's former girlfriend. My friend was a "nice guy" and she was an admitted "bad girl bitch" who was tired of being hurt by "bad boys" so she thought she'd try a "nice guy" - but it went about as badly as you could imagine. I ran into her a couple of years after their breakup - he'd moved away in the meantime - and she wanted to talk to me about her experience with him. I was about 22, and had only recently come to understand that I had dominant tendencies, but didn't really consider myself a "Dom" yet, but I'd been thinking about those things a lot, so the timing worked out.

    She'd explained that she'd been desperate for him to "take charge" and "put her in her place" - she knew she could be a real bitch, and that she often went too far, but she was used to being with strong men who would keep her in line and keep her from getting into too much trouble. She knew my friend had better morals than the bad boys she'd been with, but she didn't realize that he'd have such a lack of confidence and leadership. She'd tried everything she could think of to get him to take the lead, and he never did.

    I honestly hadn't thought about that from her perspective before, but it really made her behavior that I'd seen in the past make sense - it had seemed very erratic before. But I also told her that I wouldn't have stood for a lot of the crap that she'd said and done - and that was the absolute truth - but then she asked what I would have done - and my answers clearly turned her on. That surprised me at first, but then it really clicked for the first time that some women CRAVE being "tamed", so I decided to show her instead of tell her, and, let's just say it was well-received.

    There's been a couple of other girls like that over the years, who were very open about being taken in-hand by a strong man to keep her "inner bitch" in check - girls who liked to fight back but never wanted to "win" - and it's just as much mental and "force of will" than it is physical - these girls ultimately crave a ton of attention, and they will push boundaries because they want their own boundaries pushed - it makes them feel "paid attention to."

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  • Pretty much the same way as I would any other woman.
    Figure out what it is about being dominated that she likes and go with that.
    For some women it's the raw physical sensation of manhandling. For others it's the more mental freedom that comes with giving up control. For some women is the sexiness of a forceful man. For some it's a mixture.
    If you study her outside of the bedroom, she will usually give you hints about what she likes in the bedroom and if she doesn't asking her what she likes and what her kinks are is always revealing.

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  • That’s fairly straight forward but does mean she gives consent and trusts you.

    Just a case of collaring her and normal Brat tamer side of things.

    It does depend on her giving informed consent and maybe having CNC type of role.

    Can be a lot of fun tbh.

    • She trusts you and she have given you full consent but she will try to show her dominance, so you have to overpower her

    • That’s then down to how her kink (s) work, learning her limits and boundaries, in reality this is about communication, honesty, trust. My ex girlfriend was definitely a Brat at times, she was a kickboxing instructor and other bits, so getting very rough and physical is not an issue.

    • Getting physical and rough not an issue and everything goes fine mostly

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  • She would simply fall in love with me, and respect me as her big alpha male.
    She could still be dominant personality outside of home, but in home she is mine.

  • It's not easy but it's possible, I am not sure if she worth the trouble.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BestHerToBedHer

    • I didn't ask for a link, tbh

    • Yea, but I put that link here anyway.

  • No, mean is a deal-breaker

  • Discuss exploring BDSM fetishes and roleplay with her. If yes, than plan on acting something out.

  • This is how I treat BRATTY SUBS before fuucking them in the Azz super hard.

    SEE BELOW

    https://www.redgifs.com/watch/shrillearnestlightningbug?rel=u%3Avikingmac%3Bo%3Arecent

  • I’m really submissive so I’m not sure what I would do

  • No, I would want no interaction of the sort with such a girl. A woman should not be like this; it is toxic, less than ladylike, and unnatural.

  • I had a couple girlfriends like that and what I found if they wanted to get dominated in bed you have to be really forceful with them. Show them that you are calling the shots and not them and want to feel that submissive feeling where they are not in control because they feel that all the time because of there personality. Maybe hold them down and maybe call her some dirty names like pretty little slut or good girl stuff like that nothing insulting. I just become a animal she wants me to be to dominate her.

  • why are you asking that?

  • I make her fucking crave my affection by showing her what I can do just once then not make it so Damn easy for her to get that again she would really have to work her ASS off for such a thing every time but in every very different ways so that it would keep her fucking busy as fuck see it's call being an ASS HOLE just enough.
    God Bless

  • Whips chains and restraints will be a good starting point

  • I will have long and pleasurable sex with her, she will be like to be posessive

  • choke hands over her mouth hair pulling spanking tit slapping nipple pulling

  • I have done in the past, a few were like this. One of them actually worked as a professional dominatrix.

    It can be fun because the whole thing leading up to sex is basically a game where she pretends not to be interested in you, but you can tell when she is because she’ll still put a lot of effort into talking to you despite supposedly not being interested.

    You win her over by just playing it cool, not getting flustered by her challenges, and waiting until she lets her guard down. Usually happens when she feels like she can trust you, is feeling horny and her desire outweighs her need to put on a front. At which point you have to have sex with her pretty quick before she cools off.

    The sex is fun with these types because it’s usually aggressive and rough, especially the first time. Usually they haven’t been fucked properly in a while.

  • Wouldn't be going out with someone like that in the first place, I'm in charge inside and outside of the bedroom.

    • You can be incharge but fir that you will have to snatch that place